do you think it's because they arent happy with their relationship or theyre just having a purely sexual urge?
2007-11-01 10:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
People cheat for a wide range of reasons. I would say for men who do it the main reason is lack of willpower and sexual urge. They see a hot woman who wants to have a one night stand with them or a relationship and they say to heck with the person who really loves them and cares about them and go have sex with some random person, they hardly know. Men that do this should not be married or in a serious relationship, they truly are no good. Women who do it seem do go after it due to a lack of love for their husband or boyfriend. They feel unloved and unappreciated by the man they are with but do not want to leave him thinking he will change but he never will. Then some women are like men they just want and look for a one night stand with a hot good looking guy. They really do not think about the one who loves them and how it will effect their relationship. The fact is I would never stay with a woman who cheats on me, and I hold no respect for any woman or man who stay with someone who cheats on them. There is real love out there, and many people are looking and wanting a real relationship, so why stay with a cheat. Some women get married to a bad boy, they think the guy will change or settle down once they are married, but 99.9 % of the time they learn and see that he is not going to change. He will just continue being the way he was, so then the woman meets a guy she wished she had married and enjoys spending time with him and how wonderful he treats her. Then she ends up cheating on her husband. The fact is she will go back to her no good husband or boyfriend after she has been treated well for a while and sees how good it is. She then goes back hoping her guy will change, once again this never happens and divorce will one day happen. I know this last thing I said happens and why, the reason I know, I was once the other man. I did not know until it was to late, it broke my heart because I had gotten feelings for her. So in all it hurt everyone involved. People cheat for all kinds of reasons. Men is usually due to sexual urge, women due to not feeling loved and special to the one they are with. No matter why one cheats it is always wrong, I have never, ever heard of a good reason for someone to cheat. =)
2007-11-01 13:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they are not happy for some reason, and having a greater sexual urge than their partner can be a reason, even tho they love their significant other. I feel, though, that most people cheat because they are dissatisfied for what ever reason. In some marriages, people grow apart as they get older instead of getting closer.
2007-11-01 10:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Don Drapers woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It incredibly incredibly relies upon on the guy and the region. a great form of adult adult males use the "drunkness" as an excuse to misbehave as a results of fact they understand that they'd control the region and wash their palms off all responsibly if something undesirable befell. of direction, there are bastards obtainable who will cheat whether they're sober, yet does lesser evil propose solid? i could like adult adult males who in no way misbehave. yet then back, if a guy that i became with for 30 years became thoroughly devoted yet had a "slip up" for the duration of certainly one of his worst days of his existence, i could be forgiving for the sake of what we've had so a approaches.
2016-11-09 23:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sexual urge and they're insecure
2007-11-01 10:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they r just not happy with their relationship and when kids are involved, it is much harder to make the right choices. I don't judge anybody. It takes "two to tango"!
2007-11-01 10:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little of both depending on the person
2007-11-01 10:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by jackibear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's the sexual urge.
2007-11-01 10:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by blair. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever the reason,they should get out of the relationship and probaly stay single.
2007-11-01 10:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have to men they don't like there relationship sometimes its like stressing out and just wanna get away so they go with some random person? but iiddkk
2007-11-01 10:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by lost in a haze 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
complete and utter boredom with the relationship
2007-11-01 10:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋