My best friend in the world told me she was bi this morning...for the 9 months iv'e been dating this guy but since she told me that she was bi...we started to hug and hold hands..i mean we have always hugged and held hands and crap like that but yeah its just different...now i look at other girls differently and i'm like looking at them more than i should..idk i know that i would never leave my boyfriend unless something really bad happened..but is there a possibility that im bi. it would be cool but wierd in the same way..me and my friends just joke about wut it would be like if me and the girl hooked up.
2007-11-01 09:28:36 · 35 answers · asked by lil' devil 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Bi? Nah... probably bi-curious, if you're dead set on being labeled.
Why not be you? Must you have this all figured out right now? Forget about maybe being bi and just be Sam. I'm sure if you just focus on being happy that everything will fall into place.
Be well.
2007-11-01 09:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by ►solo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that 10% of the total population is 'exclusively homosexual' and that 10% of the total population is 'exclusively heterosexual' and that leaves 80% of the total population as BI-sexual? What you are experiencing is called 'transference' and you are having these 'different feelings' as a way for you to better integrate what your best friend is 'going through.' This is a GOOD THING, and you may even have sexual contact with a female at some time in your life ... and that is a 'good thing' too ... but you are probably more 'hetero' than you are 'gay' and THAT means that this will only be 'experimentation' and not your 'lifestyle.' Right now, you are young and just discovering your sexuality, and it's PROPER that you are 'questioning' this ... but GO VERY CAREFULLY until you are an ADULT, because what you 'do' now can have a very marked effect on what you 'think' in the far future about 'sexuality' in general. So ... think, for now, but don't 'act' on it until and unless you KNOW both the 'act' and the 'person' you will be having sex with.
2007-11-01 09:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be.. but I think you're just curious. Once you "hook up" with a girl.. I think you'll know. I use to be the same way.. "hooked up" with a woman.. now.. I know it's not for me. It was fun.. but I like men way better! All I can say is .. I think I would rather try something out .. then to wonder and never know.
Good luck
2007-11-01 09:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by nugbug456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say ur bi.
your are confused and curious, thats why you are looking at girls alot more now because ur friend in interested so u think what about me?
most people look at a girl or so in the life and they can even hook up with them and stuff but that doesnt mean that they are bi. its just curiousity
i hope ive helped
xoxoxo
2007-11-01 09:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from readin this i say ur bi - sexual
or maybe ur bi-curious because friends do hug and hold hands all the time i mean u can do that with your mom.. it doesnt mean your bi- sexual... but when you start to do all the things a bi-sexual person would do like ... going out , making out, fingering eachother or other stuff yeah thats when u would no that u are....
2007-11-03 15:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by jalisa marie perez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bi-curious... Especially now that your friend told you she is bi. You have it on your mind and are thinking about what it would be like. You need to figure out for yourself if you are really interested in dating girls or if it's just a curiosity thing.
2007-11-01 09:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Junebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality is a blessing and a curse, yet viewing it as a schizophrenia will make you insane. If i attempt to stay my life on merely one area of the river, i'm torn asunder by technique of creating use of techniques of the opposite shore. certain, being bisexual can rip one's soul aside. yet at the same time as it will be complete proper, with an open coronary heart and truthful life, I to discover my peace living contained in the river, quenched by technique of the water which touches both area, one drop indistinguishable and inseparable from the subsequent. i'm no longer a complete guy or woman with split needs: i'm an complete guy or woman with desire. As everybody is, regardless. ~Agavé Powers
2016-10-23 05:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of hopping in with both feet, why not try giving it a little time? See how your feelings develop. If it does not move beyond a mere curiosity then you may not be and you will regret having done it. If your feelings develop then they are probably true and then you should be true to yourseldf and be whatever your sexuality is.
2007-11-01 09:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably bi-curious. your in the stage of wondering if you bi or not or just expierencing. youll eventually find out if you are or not. also it could be that you are just a girl looking for fun. theres plenty of girls that hook up with other girls for the fun of it same with guys. good luck
2007-11-01 09:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just more socially aware of the girls around you now that the possibility has been brought to your attention. I have nothing against gays, but when I learn that a gay guy has just checked me out -- suddenly all gay guys creep me out. (I have a few gay friends.)
I think it's just got you thinking, but time will tell....that's the only answer any of us can give you.
2007-11-01 09:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋