when u think he lies and holds bac stuff
2007-11-01 08:57:11 · 16 answers · asked by BaBechIcAxox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should already have trust in your partner. You should only have doubt when they have done something to ruin the trust.
2007-11-01 09:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by One Bad Mama Jama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how did they become your partner if there was not trust? Too many assume that trust will come after. You really should have waited until there was trust between you, before starting a relationship. Or is there something that happened after you got together that has made you be less sure of your relationship?
Do you have proof that he is lying and holding stuff back, or have past relationships had trust issues and you are bringing that to this one?
Too little detail here to be of much help.
2007-11-01 09:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is not learned. Everyone starts out with a certain amount of trust in any relationship. Once that trust is broken it is hard to get it back. If you are with a partner you feel holds back and lies then why bother being in a relationship? It will always be one side and you will always be checking up and playing detective. Life is to short for all that none productive energy to be wasted.
2007-11-01 09:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust the one your with then you should find a new someone because once you lose the trust or if was never there it is hard to get back. Trust is just something you feel when you are with someone. Never assume he is lying unless you have proof and if he holds back stuff well that is his right unless it is to do with the relationship.
Remember guys are great with bottling up feelings then well exploding we do not handle feelings and emotions like you ladies. Just talk with him and just tell him he can say anything just be open-minded. Really though respect his space and feelings.
Best Wishes and may God Bless You.
2007-11-01 09:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had many online relationships. The one that I have now existed online for quite some time before we met in person and moved in with one another. We're just fine. Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity. Insecurity is a symptom of something wrong with the relationship. For some reason, you are having problems trusting him or you don't feel like you are getting enough of his time or his sincere emotions, appreciation, and so forth. Find out what it is. The fact that other people are checking you and him out on a dating site is nothing to be alarmed of. The way those sites work, it could be for any number of reasons. Activity on the site, new members browsing, answering questions, edits to the profile, and all of the above will put you up to receive more traffic to your page. And generally curious people are going to click to see what you are about to. It means absolutely nothing. If he says nothing to you that is especially alarming to someone who wouldn't be otherwise suspicious, then don't worry about it. You won't accomplish anything by worrying and being paranoid. If it's going to end, then it is going to end anyway. But if it's not, paranoia is a one way road to a self fulfilling prophecy.
2016-05-26 22:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that he is always lying to you and holding back things from you then you cannot trust him . Do you communicate with eachother, do you know his family ,his friends, likes and dislikes .A relationship cannot survive without trust . Good luck to you I hope you find the answers to your questions.
2007-11-01 09:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to trust someone who lies and holds back stuff, you are making a big mistake. Remember this: it is always best to place your trust in people who are trustworthy, and to withold your trust from people who are not.
2007-11-01 09:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't have a serious relationship if you two don't have communication. you need to talk to them & if they really love you they'll answer honestly. have they done something to you before that makes you not trust them? if not you need to take a breather because you might be jumping to conclusions. the two most important things that holds together realations are communication & trust. they need to be like your best friend also.
2007-11-01 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a reason to believe that your loved one lies to you? I wouldn't love a liar in the first place. You trust someone you love.
If your loved one betrayed you once, he/she'd better work hard to prove that they never do it again! Otherwise, it is end of the story. Good bye!
2007-11-01 09:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you learn to trust someone..you just do.
If he is lying to you, and holding back things, why do you want to be with him?
What reason do you have to think he is lying anyways? More information is needed.
2007-11-01 09:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋