When out in public, I might see an attractive woman and ask my husband what he thinks of her. He might see some studly dude and ask me if I think he's cute.
I know, sounds dumb, but we have fun with it.
It's even more fun on highway trips to flirt with people in other cars. Guys never know what to think when I smile at them, and girls usually are confused about my husband, since they see me sitting next to them.
Anyone else play games like this?
2007-11-01 08:27:37 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW I struck a nerve with some people here.
Calm down.
2007-11-01 08:47:37 · update #1
Yes, often times I do too!
2007-11-01 08:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No and I will tell you why.
I work as a personal trainer. My man is a bodybuilder. All the people we know and spend the most time with are competitors like us......I do not mean this to sound self absorbed (other competitors will understand this though) but we spend SO much time devoted to building that winning frame, its almost like having blinders on to most others. I cannot even really put it into words and I am usually pretty good at that!
And all of us that we hang with are the same way. I mean, everyone is self absorbed in the same way we are....weird.
He is the ONLY man I can share a love of tuna shakes with (Deep squatters UNITE!) LOL!
Yeah sure, everyone notices attractiveness......but I think our views are a bit more distorted than the average bear!
Also, I think it is disrespectful, anyway. My man is my man, I am HIS lady. Why would I offer up other women to what is MINE?!
2007-11-01 08:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, lots of people do, and some go quite a bit farther. A little flirtation is harmless, and lots of people are turned on by knowing that others find their partner desirable. If you really want to get a reaction on the highway, try flashing someone. It's hysterical. Just don't cause any accidents.
2007-11-01 08:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a GF that was receptive to this kind of game and we had fun with it.
With another GF, I would point out a nice looking girl and never was she able to agree with me. Nor was she able to complement another woman on her own.
This shows her insecurity.
You two are obviously very comfortable with who you are and do not have the any issues with it.
Althought I would warn as to the signals that you are sending. The first GF and I would play this game with strangers at night clubs, and environments where fantasy is the norm.
In other situations you might be sending out the signal that its ok for you to mess around and the other person might interpret this as a sign that you have an open marrige.
2007-11-01 08:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by mixmaster2 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My wife and I do the same thing. She knows I look at other women just like I know she looks at other guys. Neither of us have or will cheat on the other. We trust each other and all is good. She has even pointed out other women and asked what I thought about certain parts of their bodies. Trust and love go along ways.
2007-11-01 08:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's great you guys are open minded and have fun like this. Sometimes my eyes give me away, wifey is typical insecure jealous female so no games like this for me. However, she does comment on guys sometimes, and also will flirt but she says she's just "being friendly" It doesn't bother me, but if I talk to a girl she is over there right now LOL.
2007-11-01 09:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by gary36330 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll see a pretty girl and tell my husband but he won't say "he's cute" to me he might say he likes his clothes, haircut, or his tattoo or car or something but he won't talk about his looks. If I see girl with a big rack or a juicy booty I study him and watch how much he looks. then if i say "DAMN she got a big ol booty" he'll start laughing and go " I know I saw her but I didn't want to say anything!" IDK sometimes it bothers me a little bit but I can be too mad if he looks. An attractive person is like a piece of art...they're nice to look at. But we don't flirt with other people we would kill each other if we saw that! but you guys sound like you have a fun relationship!
2007-11-01 08:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by tookoolfool 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea. All the time. My husband and I do that all the time. Just as long as your not taking the flirting too far.....unless you guys are swingser then hell yea to you. But its normal to notice other attractive people. And it would be wrong to just hide your attractions and not be honest with your spouse. As long as it is fun an innocent its awesome.
2007-11-01 08:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I drive a cross country semi. We see many really bizarre things. Its amazing what people do while driving down the road.
Its also amazing how many exhibitionist there are on the road. I mean real exhibitionist.
girls passing the truck love to flash their breasts or their a** out the window. men have been known to pull along side and masturbate while trying to get my wife's attention. Its all in a days work.
But may wife always points out the the topless or bottomless girls passing by. its a great source of amusement.
Never seen so many flat chested girls trying to flaunt what they don't have. Sometimes surprised though.
remember WOW on the back of a truck - whip it out Wednesday (flash the driver)
2007-11-01 10:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by cyrusbblackthorne 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Women and men are always comparing themselves with others but to answer your question I don't play games like this. What I do though is tell my wife how beautiful she is...it is easy because she really is beautiful but she doesn't think so. I will lay on our bed and watch her in the bath room putting on her make-up and she will catch me starring at her with a big @ss smile on my face...she just takes my breath away....just as she has for the past 32 years.
2007-11-01 08:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'll point out women to my husband, but he's a little on the jealous side, so he never reciprocates. I think it's fun and it's also educational to know what your spouse thinks is attractive.
2007-11-01 08:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋