I want some advice...I am long time married, I used to be happy and trustful but I found out my husband cheats on me and he refuse to end the relationship, he said because of the girl was virgin, on top of that she is muslim and will not be able to married in her culture, he said he doesnt know what to do,although he said he doesnt want to leave me and he swears he loves me....the problem is I dont trust him and I dont want to acept the fact that he has feelings for her also, I want to leave him, but we started a business together just a few months ago I feel trapped and humilliated not matter what he said and even I know he tries his best to pleased me and make me feel loved...I feel sometimes that I hated him and just wanna take off and desapear from his life .Plz, what can I do?
2007-11-01 08:24:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lmao... He loves you how?
2007-11-01 08:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can not forget, can not trust, and he refuses to end the relationship with this other girl, it is time for a divorce. the business will have to be either sold or he will have to buy your share of it from you. You said that you want to leave him so do it. The fact that she was a virgin when they made love the first time apparently is all the more reason to leave because he had to probably have been the one to seduce her and now he is keeping you both. Get the divorce!!
2007-11-01 08:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What would I do? I would get a divorce, as much as I wouldn't want to but trust is the most important thing in a relationship. Once trust is out of the picture, you are no longer happy and every time your husband goes somewhere you're going to think that he's cheating!
So I would get a divorce, sell the business and find myself a real man. Think of it as a new beginning
2007-11-01 08:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave'em another woman was not promised in the vowels. He doesn't love u too much if he knows him having another realtionship is killing u! He doesn't give a damn about nobody but himself and as long as u allow him to make u miserable u will stay in misery! As far as the business go half is urs. U can get a divorce and still be business partners, u just have to be strong enough to stand ur ground and know that no matter what smooth talk that he says to u , he is still hanging on to another woman. Pray about it god never puts nothing on u that u cant bare!
2007-11-01 08:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tashay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no. This is horrible. Can you survive financially if you leave? I understand you are going to lose the business and you may be struggling but, can you survive? If so I think you should leave him. Even if you have to live below your comfort level for a while until you rebuild. What he is doing is very, very wrong. The long term damage to your self worth is going to be crippling if you don't do everything you can to get out. Good luck.
2007-11-01 08:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are in need of an attorney that can get things rolling to end that marriage. No sense in being miserable because of that creep. The girl was Muslim? I hope her family never finds out about him. You deserve your freedom to pursue a happier existence, and since he's admitted to the affair, I'm sure a judge would be interested.
2007-11-01 08:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's the clincher... You have to believe that Jesus was who He claimed to be before you can understand anything else about God & His purposes. Jesus knows death, temptation, humanity, obedience, etc. because He lived as a human man.But because He was also God, He already knew the consequences of allowing ourselves to be misled, confused, and making wrong choices. Christians don't think they're any more intelligent. The fact remains, we know things that non-believers don't know. Much the same way an Astrophysicist knows things that I don't know.
2016-05-26 22:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If you continue to stay with him, you are only telling him that it is okay to do this to you. Have self respect girl. You know you can do better. If you cannot trust him again, I would end the relationship. You can file the paperwork yourself. Good luck!
2007-11-01 08:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave! You deserve so much better than a guy that is two timing! If he truly loved you, he would have no contact with this other woman, no matter what. You're his wife, he should put you first. If he can't, then why be there... To be his door mat?
2007-11-01 08:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait it out, until you have lots of proof that he is cheating. Get records and take it to your attorney- you can divorce him and keep the business, and pretty much get whatever else you want from his sorry a*s.
2007-11-01 08:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HIS feeling are irrelavant....did he consult YOU before he cheated? You must do what is right and healthy for you....leave him, divorce him. clean him out financially. THEN disappear if you wish :)
2007-11-01 08:32:17 · answer #11 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋