i had a really bad thing happen 2 me when i was about 13 and the cause of this bad thing was by a close very c

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close family member.he has been in and out of jail all his life.i am now 26 and when he goes in jail i dream about it and also when he gets out.i am very scared of him.why is this happing 2 me what is our connection besides what he has done 2 me?.does he have some unfinshed things he has left 4 me?will it ever stop?i have not seen him in 5yrs.

Answer 1

youre just worried but try not to cuz he is gone....avoid him totally

Answer 2

There is unfinished business here from the mental anguish you experienced. You can't just get over something like that. You may need to seek out a counselor who can discuss the situation with you so you can work through this.

Answer 3

Hello Alicia M,...It seems your worried he may come back and cause anguish again in your life,and this isn't helping you move on,...We agree on one thing,it has to stop!!,No more!!,...I assume you are living in the same town as this relation,and your friends are there,...Can your friends or relations scare him off?,...Or do you move to another town with some friends or boyfriend?,...Remember this is your life,your soul,your body,your sexuality,...Nobody else owns it,live for the moment,the now,...hook up with that special soul,that gives that spark to your love and life,....Best wishes,Jemmy.

Answer 4

I had bad things done to me as a child by a brother and tried to ignore it. One day it nearly drove me to sucicide, then I finally got some help from doctors. I have accepted what has happened, but will never forget it. The mind can do strange things to you, so please get some help.

Answer 5

I'd suspect that the mental anguish is the unfinished business.You should seek help in dealing with it and move on with your life.

Answer 6

you are giving him power over you still and untill you find what works for you to take this power away it wont stop. I hope you can end this he doesn't deserve this control.