Or,are these excuses too politically correct?
2007-11-01 08:04:47 · 31 answers · asked by amleth 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
or,faulty grounds for Solidarity and/or plain Relationship between sexes?
2007-11-01 08:06:32 · update #1
Excuses are in the heart of the beholder. Some women excuse themselves, others are loyal. Same for guys.
2007-11-01 08:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by BN 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Who said a woman excused to disdain man with no wealth? nobody could disdain anyone because of anything, especially because of lack of-wealth. She should respect him more cause he doesnt have life as good as the wealthy, and by the way, the wealthy has many people respected them already, so why should we respect them more anyway? :p i always treated everybody equally, no differences, after all, we're all human, so what the hell is the difference?
and what about man could disdain woman if she's old? thats really inexcusable, its crime!! he should respect her more by the time she gets older. *sigh* i dont know whats ur point here man, never n i mean NEVER disdain anyone, that's what starts the war, u know. I say this to all the people who read this, not just the asker, kay? -_- peace out!!
2007-11-01 08:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by applecheekgal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I do not believe wealth or age should be criteria on which people should be judged. It would never occur to me to disdain any man who is not wealthy, nor would I judge a woman by her age. Just because a man is not wealthy does not mean he cannot be interesting to talk to, enjoy helping others, respect the worth of any human being. These qualities to me are more important than money. Many of the most interesting women I have known are over the age of 70 and still going strong.
2007-11-01 08:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dee Gee J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both are societal stereotypes to me. It depends on the woman and the situation. Why doesn't he have any more wealth? What happened? Did he spend it all on compulsively? or did his company crumble? Case in point, let's say he spent it compulsivley...then we both know that type of behavior didn't happen overnight but developed over time and it may have interfered with the relationship so in such a case yes she is free to disdain him and free herself. Case#2 if his company crumbled but was once successful, a mature woman would stand by her man and help him rebuild or start a new one.
In the case of a woman getting old, she cannot control that and neither can a man for that matter. Both will get old so it really doesn't matter who excuses whom. All humans will eventually grow old anyway. But the question is, do you love this man or woman enough to grow old with them? That is why when we commit to someone for the rest of our lives we have to imagine that eventually those voluptuous breasts may sag, and eventually his soft curly hair we once ran our fingers through will thin out and he will be bald. We have to picture that kind of physical change, and if we love them enough then getting old won't matter, it will be a joy so long as you are growing old together.
2007-11-01 08:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you think a woman disdains a man if he loses his wealth? There are many relationships that perserve through financial troubles.
If a man truly loves a woman, as she ages, he loves her even more. The bond solidifies.
2007-11-01 12:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Marguerite 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women are fat for exactly the same reason why men are fat, consuming more calories than they burn per day. Laws of thermodynamics apply to all. Pregnancy is just an excuse some women use to make themselves feel better.
2016-05-26 22:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by brook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is excused for absence of loyalty. I personally do not know anyone who would do a thing like that. However, women who sell their soul and marry for monetary goods deserve to be treated like an old rag. After all, when you sell yourself for a price, you end up as one more possession: and because he is rich, he prefers new and shiny toys. The rest of us are caring and loyal spouses, and we deserve better than that.
2007-11-01 08:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Relationships based on anything other than mutual trust, sharing and admiration usually end when the superficial reasons of attraction fade. Not excused, but deserved.
2007-11-01 08:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by ruby 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
To disdain is not correct anytime anywhere in the world
2007-11-01 08:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the whole does not change much but the man gets old too and his soldier does not perform like it use to, i have a friend that cant even use viagra. its just a old tradition that the man take care of home, so thats why some women leave. but if she loves you, she will stay by your side if you are putting forth any effort to better yourself.
2007-11-01 08:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋