I love her for who she is, but she sometimes seems to feel down on herself because she "wants to be able to wear what other women can". I love her with all my heart, and I tell her constantly that she is perfect just as she is. I just want to come up with creative ways to make her feel more "womanly".
2007-11-01 08:04:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The misses dept. is for young women, like teenagers. She doesn't want a boob job, nor do I want her to have one. I love her just the way she is, and she knows it. What I am looking for are some concrete things I could do to make her feel like a real woman. Don't just tell me to treat her like a woman, because I'm already doing that. I need some concrete ideas.
2007-11-01 08:18:30 · update #1
Enpower her to do what she wants. Boobs or no boobs does not matter in a real relationship. It is all about the partnership/friendship.
2007-11-01 08:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Robb R 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are doing the right thing by lifting her up and hopefully not just telling her you love her but showing her as well. You can't change her feelings about herself only she can do that. If she knows she is pleasing to you and you are keeping your eyes on her and not looking at other women she will see the truth of your love. If you have been or are looking at other women stop. It will be a crushing blow to her person. Everyone wants to feel loved and cherished by their spouse. Men and women alike. Take the time to show her by your actions that she is beautiful and perfect to you. Steer away from augmentation. It will change everything and not for the better. If she struggles with self esteem that will hurt her and you because she will get fed by the attention she will receive from other men because she needs affirmation already. She may say it won't change anything but I (from my own experience) KNOW it will. Keep your attention and eyes on her. She is bombarded every day by images that make her feel less than and that is how the world works. Stay committed to her and her well being.
2007-11-01 15:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by pkgfinder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to any bs seriously I know the feeling I am not really small, but almost there.... So I know the feeling there is really nothing that you can really do though not that I know of my husband tells me I am beautiful all the time, but I still feel a little self conscious sometimes specially when hes watching music videos, or movies with chicks with huge boobs, but what can you do now a days if you are not one hundred pounds with dd on TV you are not considered to be sexy, but who knows good luck....
2007-11-01 15:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by danielle n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to them...touching, kissing, etc. Show her and tell her how much you love her and them. :) What's your favorite part on her? She might not have a chest, but I'm sure she's got something that you or her like. A breast enhancement is not the answer, but is an option I guess. Maybe she needs push up bras or something. Go to lingerie stores together.
What can she not wear that other women can? Low cut shirts, a larger bra size? Who cares...our society is too obsessed with the "woman's figure" that rarely exists naturally!
2007-11-01 15:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by azure 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought of offering to pay for breast augmentation?.
Sometimes women get implants simply for the reason they have very tiny breasts. Do not come across as to say honey I think you need implants. Simply offer the money and the idea then she can make up her own mind on what she wants to do.
Good Luck.
Many lingerie stores also have artificial external implants that
are for smaller chested woman. Making them feel larger just by adding them under her actual breasts by pushing them up she will feel larger without going under the knife and she will be able to buy a normal bra in the Adult section. Sometimes surgeons will recommend trying these before
going to the extreme of breast implants.
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
2007-11-01 15:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are saying and doing the right things already. She probably feels inadequate as so many 'boob jobs' are done today. Tell her you love her boobs just as they are; they are the 'real thing' not a glob of silicone. Tell her that just looking at her makes you horny; that she is your perfect fit and to change that would take away the perfection.
2007-11-01 15:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so many ignorant and dumb answers, its sad that "adults" write such things. i was sitting here thinking how someone could make me feel more womanly, thats tough since i am very feminine already. what i do like is a very strong man, that makes me feel i can even be more woman. but that has really not much to do with my body.
sorry not a great help. i tried.
2007-11-01 15:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by not this way 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen it doesnt matter about the size me thing she has seen you agling some huge **** and is feeling self consious about her pert ones if so you should apologize and keep apologizing for such a thing and then start by being very considerate of her nad you have to actually believ that you like her small chest no lying because as you say you love her for who she is and that includes her boobs and if it were up to me i would come over and show you how to do it when i was done she probably wouldnt remember your name lol just joking i think the wife mite not like me hanging at your place either
2007-11-01 15:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take the focus off her boobs and redirect someplace more positive.....I am sure there are parts of your wife's body that she likes Make sure you complement her on a daily basis...and dont be afarid to say to her NICE ***!!! or something along those lines
2007-11-01 15:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the only one who can make HERSELF feel more womanly and sexy. It has to come from within!
2007-11-01 15:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by that judi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋