your guy pays "0" attention to you ..... ignores you regularly ....
has made you cry quite a bit latey ..... does not seem to care at all ....
then there is another fellow who pays attention to you, makes you laugh, makes you feel good ..... what do you do ??
is it alright to have an affair with the man who seems to care about you ....... who shows you kindness, compassion, caring,
even if it is only a one night stand .... and he is filling a void in you by being there for you ........
Ladies Please Be Very Honest Here ...... Thank You!!!
2007-11-01 07:19:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you should put your energy into your relationship not into starting another one. i go through this with my husband but i always talk to him and we work on our relationship. things will only get worse if ou cheat.
2007-11-01 07:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by boo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you either talk to the person you are in the relationship with and try and work things out or you break up with the person and see if you still want to be with the other guy. Cheating is wrong and doesn't make anything better, it will just cause more problems! When I was younger, I was in a relationship with a guy who I cared a great deal about but who didn't value my opinions or think I was going to succeed in life so I kinda cheated on him and it didn't fix my problems with him and I eventually wound up breaking up with him. Now I feel as if I am labeled as a cheater, and if I would of talked to him about our problems, then things would of been better and I wouldn't feel bad about myself.
2007-11-01 07:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you rather like this commonplace person because of the fact once you're observing others then that's glaring the courting is going everywhere and if so then you certainly ought to decide for the 2nd guy. on the different hand in case you nevertheless experience for the 1st one then possibly that's approximately chatting with him and notice the place it is going. additionally you should think of roughly why you're figuring out on the 2nd guy no count if that's for convenience of the place you reside that's pointless love will decide for plenty added distances yet they are going to nevertheless be drawn jointly! on the tip of the day it style of feels you're extra happy with the 2nd so i could say decide for it female! Take the possibility and notice what occurs it style of feels the different courting will end besides so which you may to boot have something else to wait for.
2016-12-30 12:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not in a relationship right now, and as much as a one-night stand may alleviate immediate needs, it would only cause more problems in the long run, so that is not an option for me. So, until I find Mr. Right, I will settle for the unconditional love and affection of my beloved pets.
2007-11-01 14:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by Katykins 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd first bring up the topic of his lack in interest lately thinking that there must be some underlying deep issue why and see if the problem can be addressed . If he continually show me the same response time after time, I'd tell him I am leaving.
2007-11-01 14:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is not ok to have a affair with that person you need to sit down with your guy and tell him what is going on and see if you can work things out if not then you need to leave him and find someone else
2007-11-01 17:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it's ever right to have an affair, but in a situation like that, God would I be tempted.
2007-11-01 07:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Cheeks 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO< an affair is never right, under any circumstances! sure att. and words are nice, but if you want that from someone other that you're partner, get out of it! do'nt cheat!
2007-11-01 08:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it's NEVER ok to cheat. If my guy takes me for granted and treats me like you described, I tell him and it's up to him to act better. If it goes on for too long then I move on but I don't stay and cheat on him.
2007-11-01 07:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by webdoll62 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i feel my guy is taking me for granted then i would break up with him right away. though he's not treating me fairly, i wouldn't entertain another guy just to be fair to both of them.
2007-11-01 07:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋