She is really attractive, what can I do to take her mind off looking at porn?
2007-11-01 06:27:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
have lots of sex with her
2007-11-01 06:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by kellie r 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Does she realize that she even has a problem? That's the first step. Getting her to realize the problem.
Then have no judgments against her - an make her really feel that you have no judgments toward her. Tell her you understand that this a WANT and not a NEED that she feels she should satisfy. Maybe you can talk to her about seeing a life coach or relationship coach. Someone who is bias and is willing to let her talk about her addiction.
You didn't say if the porno was of legal age people, internet or magazines.
2007-11-01 06:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jewelry Designer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the gym and talk to a body sculpting specialist, have your body waxed (its very painful the first time, but it gets easier once the pores are broken in) and find a creme that works best with your skin to prevent ingrown hairs, put on slight amounts of make up, but not enough for people to know you have it on, shape your hairline and your eyebrows (but again go for just slight sharpening changes so you don't end up looking gay)... generally make yourself like one of those people in the smut mags. Drink rooibos tea, it alters your skin tone and makes it look sexier, particularly if you're a bit pale. I'm doing it, about 4 months into it, getting a six pack, good tone, very sharp. My gf is attached to my hip now, so she's looking great too cause she comes to the gym with me
2007-11-01 06:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by LP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a website called xxxchurch.com. I know the name makes it look like a porn site, but it's actually a site with resources to help people fight addictions to pornography.
2007-11-01 06:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by daniel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there is a deeper issue that only a therapist could help with. And only if she wants the help and has a real problem with it.
Is she addicted? Or just looks at it?
Does she have to look at it? Doe sit interfere with her daily life?
If so, help her find a good therapist that specializes in this type of addiction.
Try to explain to her why you think she is addicted, why it is interfering with her life and try to do so in a non-judgmental and loving manner
2007-11-01 06:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by selery222 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
12 Steps. All purpose solution. Works best for Atheists. Bob H.
2007-11-01 06:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bob H 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Get her some professional counseling, preferably a licensed professional counselor ....there are underlying reasons for her addiction to pornography
2007-11-01 06:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by metalgods 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Pornography is Not addictive. If her behavior is not pleasing to you, you could ask her to quit it.
Porn is a good way to release your inner sex fiend and not turn it loose on the public that frowns on that sort of thing.
2007-11-01 06:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by killbasabill 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Hmmmm....
first thought would be to tap that booty wild!!!
but maybe counseling, support group and or you can intervene depending on how much time you are with your friend, If you see them looking put your foot down and stop them.
2007-11-01 06:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Larvae 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unless you are with them at all times you can't. But the best thing for them to do is to stay very busy doing something productive so they will not think about it and hopefully the urges will start fading.
2007-11-01 06:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You must be addicted also- how do you know?
nothing wrong with looking at porn.
2007-11-01 06:30:57 · answer #11 · answered by ditdit 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋