My husband Wants to have sex everyday. Should I be concerned for some reason? What could this mean?
2007-11-01 06:01:18 · 45 answers · asked by miss know it all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Means he is human. My advice is enjoy the attention and get into it too.
2007-11-01 06:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Islander 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't let these people make a fool out of you. Your husband enjoys having sex with you, but he also enjoys having sex--period! Obviously, you haven't been married long; so for now you can deal with having sex everyday. After a while, you're going to realize that something is wrong (which is probably why you've asked the question), and you'll want to cut down on the daily--sometimes twice a day sexual activity. This is where husbands make their mistake: by abusing their sexual priviledge, so that their wives get burned out early in the marriage. When love-making turns into excessive use, having sex becomes a chore rather than a pleasure for the wife. If your husband doesn't pace himself and stop thinking that he should pounce on you everytime you climb in bed, your concern will turn into discouragement, and you will lose your sexual desire for him. This is what it means for a woman to be burned out.
I could have told you some crap, like these other people have; but because you had the courage to ask the question, you deserve the truth. Yes, your husband loves you; and yes, he wants to make love to you. But it's also true that because you are his wife, he now thinks that he can have sex with you whenever he wants to--whether you want to or not. And yes, you should be concerned; because the time is going to come when you will become tired of the emotional strain, and the strain on your body; and this is when your problems will begin. Sorry, but that's the truth.
2007-11-01 06:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but your boyfriend is a tool. I am 23 years old and my girlfriend is 25. We have been dating for nearly two years now and living together for about 75% of that time. I would be perfectly happy with 3-4 times per week, but as it is my girlfriend is only up for it about 1-2 times per week. Sometimes it gets stressful, but I understand she is how she is and I would never want to pressure her into having sex just because I want it more. I love and respect her too much to treat her like that. You ask why you don't want sex as much as you should at your age, but who's to say whether or not that's even true? There is no such thing an average sex drive. Everyone is different. There is no right or wrong. You shouldn't feel wrong or guilty for feeling the way you do. He should be more understanding. Best of luck.
2016-04-11 08:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably more frequent in the early stages of a relationship, but maybe later it will be less due to family obligations 0r he could just have a chronic high drive.
I agree with the wisdom of American Beauty. There are times where you are not into it, or sick or tired and you should not feel forced to do it just bc he wants to daily. He needs to have a bit of compassion for your needs as well. There is something to be said for cuddling and intimacy without sex at times, too. Have an honest discussion with your husband.
2007-11-01 06:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be concerned? No. Should you be happy? Yes. He is so much into you that he wants to make love to you all the time.
How often would you have sex? Take every day and your ideal and find a middle. Marriage is about compromising.
2007-11-01 06:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by terliuke 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means he's just like me. I think I am normal, and he may be also. Try seeing if you can create a desire in yourself to have sex everyday. It's supposed to be something you enjoy -not a task or a chore.
2007-11-01 06:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still attracted to and desires you. What would be the concern? When he doesn't want sex anymore then you have a concern.
2007-11-01 06:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
concerned? Concern is needed if he didn't want you. It could mean he finds you desirable and enjoys being intimate with you...there are however times when you should probably give it a little rest..so you can keep him interested
2007-11-01 06:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you and your hubby are and I don't know how long you have been married but you should be THRILLED THAT HE WANTS YOU EVERYDAY....I wish I could have sex with my wife everyday and twice on Sunday!!! We had a great sex life and now it seemed to disappear.....Anyway you should BE PROUD THAT YOUR HUSBAND WANTS YOU EVERY DAY.....LOVE HIM FOR IT
2007-11-01 06:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to answer this by saying GIVE IT TO HIM, GIRL! But after reading American Beauty's post, it got me thinking. Maybe you should just voice your concern to your husband. Communication is key.
2007-11-01 06:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by PYT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants sex every day with the woman he loves. That's it.
Some people have high sexual appetites. Some people don't. Personally, I would be EXCSTATIC if I was getting sex every day, but I have a high sex drive. Maybe you don't.
The fact that he wants it every day doesn't necessarily mean you have to do it every day. Talk to him, discuss both your needs, and come to a compromise.
2007-11-01 06:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋