2007-11-01 05:48:47 · 26 answers · asked by SAOIRSE 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It takes as long as you let it. Sometimes the hurt seems so much bigger than us, it's quite daunting to ever imagine we won't feel swamped by it. But every day it gets a little bit tinier until one day you and it are the same size, and then every day after that it gets a little bit smaller again until the day comes when it's manageable.
if it makes it any easier I'll save you all the pink and yellow ones for the next six months.
2007-11-01 06:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Eden* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a cliche but time is the great healer. However, I think it is better not to look ahead but to take it day by day. Try and keep occupied so that you don't brood too much. You will have good days and bad days, but eventually you will wake up one morning and find that the hurt has gone. Take heart in the knowledge that if we didn't get over grief and hurt we simply couldn't function. We do though. Someone we both know calls it the bounceability factor!!
2007-11-01 14:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Beau Brummell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just depends. My boyfriend and I have dated twice, this times the second. We broke up for like 8 monthes and neither of us got over each other.. And we tried dating others but it never went anywhere.. But this time it's much better..
I'm sorry you have to go through it. I hope it gets easier for you, also. Just try to spend time with people to get your mind off of it. I always kept busy, I think that's the best thing you can do.
=)
2007-11-01 12:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Wren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of things. How long were you together and things like that. Try to think about other things and move ahead. It will get easier as time goes by. How long? Sorry, I don't know.
2007-11-01 12:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About a year.
2007-11-01 12:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by mz112ungu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt, my biotch of a daughter left in the middle of the night with my grandson that Iv'e hand raise for 3 years with a guy I introduced her to from the job. She says they didnt tell me she was going because I have to many issues, the only issues I have she gives me from not seeing my grandson. Biotch wont even let me send him christmas presents...Its been 6 months and Im still in tears over it. Hope its easier for you...
2007-11-01 12:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jezmanrulz-PWC-WRW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not measureable to me. In time, it will get easier to accept and then eventually it will just be a part of your memory and I hope pleasant. I had a boyfriend that I absolutely fell head over heels for and he crushed me. guess we obviously didn't feel the same thing. he's still in my mind and I think of him once in a while. sometimes a certain song will trigger me to think of him. it does get easier.
2007-11-01 12:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never be totally over them, not to say that you can't have true love with someone else. Be strong pick out the pieces of your heart and go on!!!!
2007-11-01 12:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bert B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's taking me a while
I've been trying to get over him for 3 years(going on my fourth) and still haven't accomplished my goal
grrrr
it takes too long
i can tell you that is more than 3yrs but i don't know the exact time
2007-11-01 12:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by ¬¬ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all pain. The more time that passes - the easier it will become.
2007-11-01 12:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by gatsgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋