I reunited with my ex boyfriend after 15 years. The breakup had no closure after I had an abortion. When we're together it is totally magical. But, when we're apart we argue because I'm trying to get to know more about him and he is just very evasive.
Is this normal for a cancer male and pisces female relationship?
2007-11-01 04:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Don't give too much credit to the zodiac. There's a reason those things say 'for entertainment purposes only".
There are fundamental things you NEED to have for any relationship to work. THings like trust, communication, respect..
Communication is obviously a problem for you here. If he's being evasive, then there's obviously something he doesn't want to tell you, or doesn't want you to know. No relationship is going to function with secrets like that...case closed. if you give him time to open up to you, then he might start talking to you more. if not, then I believe you are just setting yourself up for failure.
Note, this is my opinion, which is worth as much as it's costing you. Listen to everyone's advice, but make your own decision, and then stand behind it.
2007-11-01 04:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, was the abortion due to him? If not, that severely impacts a male's pschy, and that's another story.
It has nothing to do with astrology, it's chemistry, pure and simple, and whether or not one of you can hold back from being stubborn long enough to wait out the periods you're not together for.
It IS normal for a male and female relationship....forget all the pretty extra words.
2007-11-01 04:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by First-p_o_l_i_c_e-Responder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crabs and fish really don't get along.
Fish swim freely, enjoy the sensuality of the water, and let the feelings flow naturally over their bodies. Fish are forgiving and transition easily.
Crabs don't. They have hard shells, they snap at people, they stay on the ocean floor and hide in rocks and eat food off the bottom. Whatever lands their way, they eat.
You are trying to absorb him into your swimming school of fish, he does not want to join up and go.
It may be that you need to love him as a person but not as a lover. Be his friend.
I'm guessing the root cause of your abortion is the root cause of your troubled relationship. I'm willing to bet that 15 years later he is missing keenly the child you aborted, and the pain really hurts. He is seeing now what you could have had 15 years ago, and the pain is hard to bear or explain.
If the relationship is worth saving, and he is willing, why not go to a Christian counselor who will help you through steps towards forgiveness and your relationship with each other?
Crabs' shells are there to contain pain they can't express (except in being crabby). If he is willing to talk to a counselor, be ready to forgive him, and yourself, and let that go.
Good luck.
2007-11-01 05:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by enn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry, this is a hard situation. What I'd recommend is go talk to a counselor, get some help for this. You broke up with him, but it's not your fault he killed himself. That was a choice he made. He apparently loved you a lot. If he had problems with the break up he should've talked to you about it. It's not your fault for breaking up. It was his choice.
2016-03-13 09:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep especially in that getting to know you stage. Don't force your cancer guy into opening up to you otherwise it will piss him off even more. I would press my cancer guy about opening up to me and he'd get irritated. Sometimes cancer guys can be rather passive-aggressive. He might be pissed off about you getting an abortion. When he's ready you should talk about that. What I've notice about my cancer guy is once he realized that I really do love and adore him. He opened up to me a lot more. So don't fret us pisces women can deal with cancer guys mood swings better than any sign. Good luck!
2007-11-01 04:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
BSOLUTELY. Honey, I went that route, will never do ti again. Cancer is much too lovey dovey (I'm the Cancer) but won't admit it, and Pisces can love to the point of almost obsession. Cancer doesn't like being told what to do or feeling like they owe anybody explanation, so he may be feeling like you're too into his business just yet.
2007-11-01 04:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Your star signs have nothing to do with it. You don't trust him, plan and simple. If he doesn't deserve your trust, or he is evasive, don't waste your time on him. You deserve better than chasing after someone trying to figure out what he's doing.
2007-11-01 04:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by boots6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Horoscopes are based on generalizations. If your relationship isn't working you won't find the answer in the stars.
2007-11-01 04:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by looking4answers 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has nothing to do with his sign. He's hiding something.
Get a virgo, they are loyal and great in bed. Good Luck.
2007-11-01 04:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's got nothing to do with your signs. It's got everything to do with your chemistry and who you are.
2007-11-01 04:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋