I went to a Halloween party last night, and there was a guy there dressed up as a female cheerleader. Now, I am normally straight, but I must admit this guy was hot. He caught me staring at him a few times, and after a few drinks I had finally worked up the courage to strike up a conversation with him. He was very friendly and very flirty (he kept touching my arm after cracking a joke and referencing what was under his skirt).
Has this ever happened to anybody else, and does this mean I might be turning gay?
2007-11-01 02:45:20 · 26 answers · asked by GCG 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
pushes you to the floor and stomps on you.....did you get paid? how do you know it wasn't a girl dressed as a guy dressed as a cheerleader? it was Halloween after all ( slaps you and leaves)
2007-11-01 03:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I've been wondering something like this too. If I'm attracted to a woman dressed in a suit, does that make me gay? Or just curious?
Either way... wanna come over so I can convince you of your straight-ness?
2007-11-01 14:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by EmilyJune 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off ignore the idiots who think its funny to joke around with this lol..
i would say your bi curious - this is a phase in many peoples life where they wonder about the same sex. this is perfectly normal. many choose to ignore these feelings and continue being straight, but some choose to explore and start to experiment. thats what this stage is all about. it dosnt mean that your bi, or gay, or straight. thats up to you in the end.
once you decide to continue with these feelings or not then its decided by once you start to involve you self with men if you like it or not. if you do you can consider yourself bi if you also like to be involved with the women.
now theres no reason to start to label yourself. for you are the only one who can do that. you may choose to never label your self but if you do its when you finally accept who you are. now if you feelings for men grow stronger and your feelings for women fade to nothing you can consider yourself gay.
Just be sure to be true to yourself and accept who you are. it makes it much easier. and remember this is an experimental stage - so have fun! take it easy and don't rush things it might take some time to see what you like or dont like. And also remember that you may in fact still be straight this might just be a phase your going threw, you might be bi, or gay.
wish you luck and have fun!
2007-11-01 09:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by x4ev3rl0v3dx 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
-k- I HOPE TO GOD THAT YOU ARE SERIOUS because that just turned me on so bad. If that's what it takes to get a straight guy, now I know what to be for Halloween next year.
OMG OMG OMG OMG I need to sit in someone's lap right now and do the splits.
2007-11-01 16:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by StickySweet BabyBoy 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not at all precious. But I do suspect you were envious of his costume choice. I can make you into a fabulous blue diva next year.
2007-11-01 10:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Madam Naka 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you're bi .. Theres nothing wrong with that. I always wanted a 3 sum with two guys ... Can't find two willing guys that aren't completely gay ...
2007-11-01 09:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Does Venus Mantrap make your weiner sad?
2007-11-01 16:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by dingelbury 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is just a .character . Do,nt give any importance to it.u yourslf think what u tends to be
2007-11-01 10:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't mean you are turning gay, but he might have already made that leap.
2007-11-01 16:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord! Lay off the cough syrup will ya?
Good one hawk!
2007-11-01 09:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋