Should i just move on and stop thinking about him are should i keep trying and hope...
Okay okay well i have known this Guy for a long time now like 5 years now. and hes my best friend and also good friends with my brother. he always came over my house for no reason. sometimes even when my brother wasn't home. he would say idc if your bro not home i just wanna hang out. he use to sometimes buys me ice cream for no reason too. he is really nice to my parents especially my mom he would always give her his arm to walk and open her door and just be nice. he also invites me out to eat or to go out places like to watch a movie or out to eat, things like that. i always thought its was normal and thats how you treat friends.Yet i had always had a thing for him since i met him. But i never told him. because well at first it was just a crush so i said i want to get to know him better before i tell him i like him. and then i got to know him better and he became my best friend. so then i didn’t want to tell him because i didnt want to ruin the friendship. so i never told him but i still liked him. Then after graduation he told me he was moving to another state. so i tried to get closer to him make it more obvious that i liked him. He would play back and all too. And all my friends thought he liked me too. So i took the chance and the day before he moved and I TOLD HIM.: “i always had liked him more than a friend and thought he should know that before he left”. He said "im Flattered" which i thought okay well i guess thats a nice way to say i dont see you that why. so i left it at that. We still talk maybe once a month. i dont really bring up my feelings again. but i cant help thinking about him everyday. i cant help wishing to be with him. even when i had my boyfriend i still didnt like him as much as i liked my friend.
2007-11-01 02:01:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
he's the only guy that i ever felt this way before. He's the only one that when im with him i have no fears. literally even my phobia goes away for a little while or i can control it better. He was the guy i went to after a bad day. i didnt even had to tell him what was wrong...just being with him made me feel better and made my problems go away..
And the other day i was talking to this kid another friend not the guy i like but my other friend and he said what type of response is I'm flattered and he said maybe he just said cus he didnt think a long term relationship would work and he was going to move. so i just got me thinking more. maybe thats true. but i dont want to keep thinking of him and torturing my self by thinking i want to be with him. What do you think i should do? should i move on even though their might still be hope and even though i am sure i really did like him, maybe more than like more like love? or should i just stop?
2007-11-01 02:01:33 · update #1
so ive been meeting new people lately so i can sort of move on. and trust me i've tried meeting other guys and giving other guys chances but none of them come close to him. i keep thinking of him.
2007-11-01 02:02:17 · update #2
no im not 14 im 18 i did say i he told me he was moving after we graduated.
2007-11-01 02:21:57 · update #3
It sounds to me like you have this unrealistic picture of this guy in your head. Like he is above everybody else somehow. If you continue to judge others guys by what you admire in him, they will likely never measure up. You will never move on because they won't be *him*. In my experience, when a guy says he's flattered after you have opened yourself up like that, it means he does not see you in the same light. And rather than wasting your time on something that isn't meant to be, truly move on. Say goodbye to that notion and find a sweet guy that wants YOU.
2007-11-01 02:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey MCRchick nice to see you again!
hmmm... I think you need to bring it up with him again. Just ask him what he thought when you said it and if he feels the same about you or how he feels in general. Guys lie about this stuff so don't be hurt if his answer isn't great, just observe his reaction and his actions after you two have talked about it and take it from there.
If he likes you he may or may not say it, but he'll begin to show his true feelings little by little.
If you think he doesn't feel the same way towards you, then hey, relax okay? You're a great person and you CAN still be friends. Just say "I'm sorry i didn't mean to scare you or anything, i just thought you should know and i had to let it out." and then say something like " I still want us be as close as we were before any of this happened." If this happens, then unfortunately you'll have to try to not think too much about it.
Maybe his feelings will change in the future, you never know!
Anywhoo, be happy okay? Listen to some MCR it always helps me =)
2007-11-01 09:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by kinda_crazyish 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you are young, and first crushes/loves/etc are hard to get over. You DID but a bug in his ear so just move on. You can't spend the rest of your life pondering over someone who may or may not like you. Besides, do you think he is not going out and meeting other girls? It's not going to hurt to go meet other boys, date around, have some fun. Just relax and enjoy being young and available.
2007-11-01 09:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mullet Master 5000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. Perhaps that is part of the reason why your friend would not admit or commit to anything serious. Only time will tell and if you are meant to be together your paths will cross again. Meanwhile enjoy your life as you only get one chance at it.
2007-11-01 09:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Ask him if there would be any possibility of the two of you hooking up or getting into a serious relationship. He is the only one that can give you an answer that would matter. Then you would definitely know for sure. If you can't ask him, you are not ready for a relationship anyway.
2007-11-01 09:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it some time! If he is not seeing you that way there is not much you can do about it. BUT, you put the bug in his ear and he WILL be thinking abobt you so it could change. Just give it some time and try not to be miserable doing it. Life's too short!
2007-11-01 09:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is what i like to call your soul mate!!!! i would do anything and everything to try and be with him!!! just my opinion though... i would like to add that i am the kind of person who believes in love at first sight so a lot of my friends think I'm crazy.. i might be.... but i just believe magical stuff like that
2007-11-01 09:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you're like 14? Get over it and grow up!
2007-11-01 09:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
could you repeat that? I dozed off somewhere along the way.
2007-11-01 09:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by ghouly05 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-11-01 09:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzy, I Miss U Love! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋