2007-11-01 01:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I start to watch it impersonal
2007-11-01 01:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn a bit more about them
for example if someone was not looking after their kids on a train and they were annoying everyone until you could stand it no more, you then told the parent what you thought of them in no uncertain terms.
If the parent them seemed to come out deep thought and said they were sorry but were miles away as their partner had just died and they were thinking of what was to happen next in their lives and did not realise the kids were playing up.
Your attitude would change in an instant to one of compassion and sympathy
Why? nothing has changed the kids are still noisy !
You can suddenly see the other side of the situation and that is because you understand a bit more and can see why the situation exists and perhaps you can offer help.-Different attitude to same situation
2007-11-01 02:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. first have to want to
2. when you do your old thought or attidute THINK before action
3. to change your attidute at the start you do the opposite!
so if your attidue is sour about work/school then you would do the opposite you love school
4. fake at first then it will be true!
2007-11-01 02:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to find the positive in them. Try looking for something good that may come out of the situation. It is so easy for people to find the bad things in life, but if you are willing to look hard enough you will always find the good hiding underneath.
2007-11-01 02:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Behavin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at 1 situation in a different way.
2007-11-01 01:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥Jonny_Sniper♥ღ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which 'certain things' are you referring to? (it can and does matter).
However, on the whole, the answer is 'Education and Understanding' of those aspects that relate to those ~ 'certain things.'
Sash.
2007-11-01 03:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should put yourself in a different mode, in another situation, think of feelings about that should it be yourself and you should have a different attitude, slightly, lol
2007-11-01 02:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by linski2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should i change.
This is my opion - you dont have to agree with it but you should respect my choice.
2007-11-01 01:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to sleep it off
2007-11-01 09:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋