i can't stop..what to do?..is there anyway to stop this or is it harming bad habit?..give me the solution plz...i am believing only after marriage sex.. not interested in before marriage sex..plz
2007-11-01 00:16:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ummm... although masturbation isn't bad or unhealthy and this is a matter of fact, now, after the marriage, you just should set the real motivations of your habit. Often masturbation only is an effect of a psychological imbalance and not the cause! For a "just married" couple masturbation should be the last event and need in those young minds! That even could suppose no sexual harmony......
2007-11-01 01:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
physically there is no harm done. it is human nature and actually healthy. religiously or spiritually is a different story. in the catholic church and probably some other types of christianity it is considered a serious sin but since its so difficult to stop it is considered a habitual behavior and so therefore is not necessarily mortal. still you can try by praying to stop whenever you get the urge. don't beat yourself up over it though because some people spend there whole lives trying to stop it. take it like an alcoholic... one day at a time... and don't get mad at yourself if you can't.
2007-11-01 21:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in sex after marriage and feel guilty about masturbating 12 years old, then why are you masturbating and still continue to do so? You are funny person. For 11 years you have been masturbating and you still living so there won't be any harm done,otherwise you are already dead! Carry on till you cannot continue masturbating.
2007-11-01 00:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by mako 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Masturbation is totally common. you won't be able to coach him to end, nor must you. you mustn't even enable him know which you know that he's doing this. on the age of 12, he desires and merits privateness and admire. Love him sufficient to furnish him that. via the way, whilst a youthful person male stops masturbating lots, it in all probability ability he's all started having intercourse...
2016-12-30 12:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by divalerio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hv 2 worry about ur habit. if u masturbath nw. later on when u r having sex with ur wife, i will effect u. by reducing the number of sperm in ur *** n it would be a problem to have kids. jz try to reduce ur habit by once a week. its jz fine to refresh n keep it producing. busy urself with works. seems like u have plenty of free n lonely time to have masturbation. rite. go out meet ppl n socialize.
2007-11-01 00:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to stop. IT is not a harming bad habit; therefore enjoy your masurbation sessions get creatice and do some masturbation techniques.
2007-11-01 03:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel gulty just make a choice. It's all up to you. If you want a advice,i will tell this, slow down a little bit, once or twice a week it would be better. Good luck buddy.
2007-11-01 03:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to stop, 90+ percent of the males your age masterbate daily too, and will keep on as long as they can. Daily is not bad for you at all. Enjoy.
2007-11-01 01:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not going to harm anything!! It hasn't in the last 11 years.
Enjoy!!!
2007-11-01 09:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't stop. No need to stop. You are not doing any damage. You can still masturbate after marriage too.
2007-11-01 02:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋