Ok i have this friend and she thinks shes pregnant and i dont know what to tell her because of how she explains her feelings . She said her breast are hurting,no vomitting but She said her last period was in August and it's now Nov. I know you thinking well yeah shes pregnant but she is always stressed and thats one thing i know stress will keep your period away. And she has thought she was pregnant alot of other times also because of her irreugular periods. She said sometimes they come on time and sometimes they will come a 1 or 2 later but this time like i said Aug. Now Nov. She has also been cramping but no bleeding . I just dont know what to tell her when i was pregnant with my child my sign was cramping without bleeding and missed period.......what do i tell her ??? Thanks for the answers!
2007-10-31 22:22:10 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Lonelygirl4u♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go to the store and buy a pregnancy test and 2 small tubes of chocolate chip cookie dough and go over to her house and hang out. While waiting for the results, open the cookie dough. Go check the results and the cookie dough can either be a celebratory indulgence or comfort food - which along with a good friend can make any situation brighter!
2007-10-31 22:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go buy her a pregnancy test, and tell her to take it. The dumb thing about waiting 3 months is that if she is pregnant, and doesn't want to have a baby right now, she would be out of luck. She only has a choice through the first trimester. After 3 months, she can only choose life for the baby. Abortion isn't a choice any more. If she has such problems with periods anyway, she should see a doctor, but first, rule out pregnancy.
I just wanted to add that if I am 1 week late, I buy a pregnancy test and take it. Who in the world would want to worry untill it's too late to matter anyway?
Not that I condone abortion, but that if you don't want to be a parent right now, with this man being the baby's father, either sex isn't something that should be happening, or you need to make the right decision for you.
2007-11-01 05:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't this girl go to a doctor?? Or is she just wasting your time with all this drama--like she's the first person to ever be pregnant?? A wise man once said--" GO TO THE DOCTOR"..that's what you tell her and then go take care of your own family. Hey--she could be one of these troubled women who actually get jealous and play off all these symptoms for attention because they are wishing they had a baby like their friends do. Well anyway---good luck and stop playing nurse with that girl.
2007-11-01 05:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of being pregnant or not, she should be going for a general check up at the Doctors - being that stressed and missing periods is not good.
Go out and buy a home pregnancy kit too, at least that will give you an idea on yes she is or not.
2007-11-01 05:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by • Koala • uʍop ɹǝpun 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a Pregnancy test kit from a chemist and get her to urinate on it.
10 minutes later you will have your answer. How simple is that!!
I may not be a woman but I am into double figures in kids with at least 4 current pregnancies, so consider me an expert on the subject.
2007-11-01 05:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by John M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a simple test at the store and it should quiet all of your fears. Hormones are tricky and every pregnancy is different so signs can be completely different for each person and could even be next time you have a baby.
2007-11-01 05:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by B-Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tell her to take a pregnancy test and find out why she's so stressed and see if you can prevent it. Stress is not good in anycircumstances certainly not pregnancy.
2007-11-01 05:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by poetreey14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent had my periods since august and im not pregnant nor is there anything medical wrong with me ur friend should take a test and find out for sure or go the doctor
2007-11-01 05:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, since she has managed to avoid the obvious all this time. Take her to the nearest drugstore and have her purchase a pregnancy test. Then help her use it correctly.
Or she could try this: http://www.thepregnancytester.com/
2007-11-01 05:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by dragonwych 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take a pregnancy test....and see a doctor. If she isn't pregnant, she is showing some symtoms that warrant checking out...if she is pregnant she be getting prenatal care.
2007-11-01 05:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by califhsmom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋