It's very strange for her to be acting this way but she at the moment seems to be a little too clingy.
She is always brushing the lint of my clothes, baking me things you know and i love her for it.
But recently when we went out to a dinner party and one of our mutual female friends made a "pass" at me she got extremely mad.
I can understand this but honestly it was just a bit of harmless fun.
She always asks me if i love her (which of course i do) but she also repeatedly asks me if i have ever cheated on her.
I NEED SOME SPACE.
She always comes in and talks to me while i'm in the shower etc etc.
It's driving me crazy.
2007-10-31 21:31:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lock the bathroom door, da! What would you do if a guy you knew came onto your wife right in front of you,would you think it was just harmless fun you know damn right well you would be pissed off. Your wife sounds like she loves you very much if you keep acting the way you are she will get tied of it and i 'll tell you this if she does you will lose her forever to someone else maybe that friend of yours who was just having some harmless fun.
2007-10-31 21:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is the biggest wasted emotion. And trying rationalize with someone in that mind frame is slim to none. Maybe you should do a romantic get together....kinda of like old times. Many times, people feel insecure because things have changed from the passionate honeymoon state to just married...but we love it other life style. Spice it up with her, I bet the jealously thing goes away. Whatever you do, don't defend yourself...you shouldn't have too anyway but some view it as an admission of guilt. Good luck!
2007-10-31 21:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude... you got to be kidding me. You're upset because your wife is paying some attention to you !!!! Just read some of the questions here and be happy you're not on here asking for advice because she's cheating, or out drinking with the boys...etc. Enjoy that she loves you and wants to do the little things for you. A lot of men would be extremely happy to have someone to fuss over them like your wife does for you.
2007-10-31 22:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mabey shes not feeling as loved by you. Mabey shes feeling badly about herself. Ill bet she just need a little UNEXPECTED tlc. It honestly means more to her if its innitiated by you. Espesially if shes feeling low about herself. Just make absolutly sure that she knows how you feel about her and tell her often, not just once in a blue moon. Sometimes ladies need to hear that. (im sorry thats just how we are) . Guys dont have to say much to understand eachouther but when you communicate with most females, you have to be a little more open.
2007-10-31 21:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk about why she is feeling insecure at the moment. Once you know why she feels threatened and she knows you feel smothered, then youve got a much better chance of getting through it.
2007-10-31 22:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by mothmyth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're not supposed to make gross generalizations about things like race, GENDER, religion, sexuality and what not. These are called prejudices. You are a prejudiced individual.
2016-05-26 06:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure about something in her past. Mine was like that and after some counseling she found out what was bothering her. It made life much better.
Good luck cause I know it can drive you crazy!
2007-10-31 21:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Johnnyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strongly, gently and patiently affirm your commitment, love and affection to your wife. She seems to feel not secure and trying to dig these things out of you. Most spouses would get upset if their partner started flirting with a friend in front of them. Let her know that she is loved deeply and you're committed to her, that she doesn't have anything to worry about.
2007-10-31 21:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by greenwich 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you dont need any space, you need to be the happiest man in the world, and proud of her for getting defensive for that "pass" my wife is the same way and we tell each other at least 50 times a day we love each other, you just need to accept her love and learn to not be embarased by it, believe me your freinds are envious as hell. your a lucky man.
2007-11-01 00:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that girl who made a pass at you got her thinking and now
shes afraid of losing you
you need to show her that you still love her
go for a weekend get away with her or something
call her in the middle of the day just to say " i love you"
2007-10-31 21:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋