teen marriage?

Question

i feel like my baby dad and i dont have anything in common anymore we are always figthing for no reason what could i do to make our relationship better

Answer 1

I got married when i was 18 had a baby and divorced at 22. I couldn't wait to get out of the marriage i did not love him looking back on it now it was puppy love or maybe i just wanted to get out of my house away from my father. Odds are against you that it will last only because your still a baby yourself and don't know what you want. 10 years from now you'll be a completely different person then you are now.

Answer 2

Marriage is a very delicate situation and one that isn't handled well by teens usually. Which is actually more a fact than opinion as the human brain does not stop developing until about 22 years of age (thus the legal drinking age of 21) and the last thing your brain develops is the complex thinking skills that are required to be a well rounded adult, so on top of not getting married don't booze it up either or your less likely to ever be a responsible adult! The fact that you have a baby by this man makes it a difficult situation, but the fact that your already not getting along means that the commitment of marriage would just be an added strain and he probably wouldn't hold true to his vows in the end either way. The best thing to do now is try and get along as best you can for the baby, don't make anymore babies and push yourself to be the best woman to him that you can be, as the father of your child he deserves that respect and it actually goes a long way because he will start to respect you more to and it would bring you closer. Until your a little older just focus on bonding with him and your child as a family type unit as best you can, and try not to be a pushover because if he is playing an active role in the babies life he is already doing a lot more than most teen fathers! Best of luck sweetie.

Answer 3

well i know most people are going to say marriage councler but most people cant afford that. I would tell you this, first you need to ask him what is wrong and what is causing him to fight and be upset a lot. if you have tried to talk to him and nothing happens well then you are heading down a dead end road. I know that talking just seems so old and pointless but to spice things up and get the sparks back. There could be a million things that could be wrong and make you both fight and I know kids are a common cause of fights too weither you are stress, tiered, or upset from handling the kid all day, Good luck.

Answer 4

You made your bed......I hate to say that and do not mean to be mean...but........to start with - if you are married, it is not the baby's dad....it is your husband and you do have something in common..........HELLO!!!!!!!! Your child!!!!!!!!

Start thinking more like a MOTHER and little less like a child yourself!!!!!!!!! You and your husband need to get your head out of the dirt and get it together and make it work and take care of your baby..............

That is what is wrong with this world now.....All of these kids having babies and getting married, and if I dont like being married I will just get a divorce....well that is not how it is suppose to work.....YOU took vows.....So get some counseling and make it work............

Answer 5

for one you all need to sit and talk,yall need to make time for just the 2 of you ,like a date night once a week ,even if it's a night at home watching a movie.also you might can be a shoulder for him sometime when the world seems like it always fighting him,you all had to have something at the begining,you need to try to talk when you all not mad.and never go to bed with out solving the problem.

Answer 6

It sounds asn if you two are just kids your self. You can never have a good relationship till you get past the baby daddy stuff.

Answer 7

You need to sit down oneday and talk, peacefully, calm, and find out what went wrong. How did it happen, and what you can do to make it better. Or face the ultimate, separate and divorce, and move on.

Answer 8

nothing in common at all?
spend different days doing different things that you each like, even if the other doen't like it.
that might be able to build a bond again.
TRY to find something that you both like w/o forcing it.
remember people do change tho.



good luck :)

Answer 9

Couples counseling. At least do parenting classes for your baby

Answer 10

this question is so confusing.. you have said teen marriage then you have said baby and dad.. well you can't be married to your dad?? have you accidentally misspellt something or something?