okay so my brother asked me to sleep with him and then started BEGGING me to give him oral and i said no 50 times (litarally) and he kept on begging and i said i was gonna leave and he said he was sorry and then made me sick of it and told me it would be so hot and sexy and i have issues with that, and he knows it, i fold under pressure soooooooo easily and i did it.... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
2007-10-31 18:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
do u think it was kinda like a rape?
2007-10-31 18:29:28 · update #1
You both need to seek help.
2007-10-31 18:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
rape no, wrong yes, you don't mention your ages; if still at home would make it clear that you will inform your parents if he mentions it one more time, if living together find a new place to live, yes you made a mistake but you don't have to keep on making it,as for your brother sounds as tho he could use some help like professional counseling! You may also need help but be strong admit to your mistake; learn from it and move on !
2007-10-31 18:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by gynodoc 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
he's fantasizing. oftentimes people have "sick" fantasies, but it is not normal or natural for any family-related fantasies to go beyond that - just fantasies. many sick thoughts go through many peoples' heads - we don't want that, but we all have that little devil in us. your brother has gotten caught up in this fantasy and is not considering the consequences, or your feelings. as scary as it might be, you NEED to tell someone that will listen - a parent, a teacher, counselor, etc.
2007-10-31 20:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have not done such a thing,if your brother insist you could have leave. Anyway, it happen already.It was not nice to know about you giving him oral. It was not a rape, next time tell your brother to go find a date. Or you can find her a girl date. Anyway is he you legitimate brother? or Not?
2007-10-31 18:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by freya vida 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
does he not realize there are lines he shouldn't cross? was this the first time or has it happened before? He needs help FAST because he knows how to play you now and it won't stop there.
2007-10-31 18:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia & Shane 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's sick...tell your parents. He needs help. And why did you do it? You shouldn't have. That's all I know of to say.
2007-10-31 18:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Spiral Out 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think the two of u are very sick and need to see a doctor
2007-10-31 18:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by ME 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
rape ??? you felt for it, you and your brother are both sick. tell your parents get psychological treatment.
2007-10-31 19:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
um, yes. it sounds like he pressured you into sex to an unreasonable extent. and i would tell your parents a.s.a.p. that is incest.
2007-10-31 18:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lovey 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents... you both need help.
2007-10-31 20:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋