Ok so this is what happened to me like half hour ago! Ok i was about to go in the shower and all of my boyfriends friends are over our house just chillin and hanging out with roomates etc ..My boyfriend isn't home he is out god knows where lol i think his cousins, but anyways I heard them all screaming when i was in my room getting ready to go in the shower so i decided to ease drop because they were all screaming and laughing etc ..so when i was listening to their conversation i over heard one of my boyfriends friends saying "oh so did you hear what happened to Ryan" (which is my boyfriend ) the other guys said no what, Then the roomate said " Ryan showed me his phone the other day and got a text message from some girl and she said " Girl :said " Im wet ryan i miss you i want you im in the shower " etc.. thats what my boyfriends friends said ..and they said they saw it! I don't know whether to believe it or not ! please help ..i don't know what to do! If i ask my bf he will deny it!
2007-10-31 18:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
well me, i would probably think up someone i needed to call & ask to borrow his phone & walk off talking, then keep it & check his inbox & his outbox. &see if theyare corresponding.
it's a dirty thing to do, but it'll work. you may not like your answer. but you can get the heads up & dump him , then maybe he'll get her out of his life!She may be aggravating him & he not corresponding too.
never know, you sure you want to , i guess i would.
2007-10-31 18:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by AnnaMaria 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Krissy. Sorry to hear about this bullshit going on in your life. I'm sure you could do without it hu? My name is Heidi, I just happened to come across you in Yahoo when I was searching for info on Birthcontrol. I was actually trying to answer another question you had about the Aviane pill. I have been on that for 10 months and it has completely killed my sex drive. Yes, it couldn't be worse. AND now they are saying that some sex drive problems due to the pill are permanent. ALL pills affect your sex drive! Millions of women are having this problem and getting off the pill. I just wanted you to know. Today I took my last one. I am going to get a diaphragm. I just didn't want you to loose your sex drive too, it sucks! As for your boyfriend... chances are he is sleeeping with someone else. Guys are assholes! It took me almost 15 years to find a good one. If you feel you can trust him, ask him about it. If you cant trust he will tell you the truth-- go undercover...don't say anything about it, get ahold of his phone and find out yourself. Then Kick him to the Curb if needed. If you ask me, it sounds like you could do better boyfriend wise. Wouldn't it be nice to be with someone you trust? Good Luck, let me know how it goes!
:)
Heidi
2007-11-01 05:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe them. They knew you were in the room so they were just trying to talk like that for you to hear it...they just wanna tease you. . .feel bad for ur bf. ! you should trust ur bf no matter what...I mean unless if you caught him doing something wrong or never doubt him because that's what a gf should do.
Also, it does make sense..you were gonna go showering and they talked about wet and showering stuff in their conversation.
2007-10-31 20:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by â?}-{annA]-[?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that they thought that you could hear them and they made it up? Boys are really mean and sneaky sometimes, they are just as bad as girls. If not, you can try to sneak and look at his messages or you can look at his cell phone bill and check out all the numbers on there. It sound a little psycho, but desperate time call for desperate measures!
2007-10-31 19:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok a few things: 1- do you trust this guy
2- are his friends d*ckheads
3- has anything ever happened before?
Just tell him what happened and ask if it is true, of course he will deny it anyway but it is easy to tell when guys lie!
or
You could steal his phone and check it!
or
Ask his friends!
or do all 3! but dont just dump him!
well thats all i got but yeah, goodluck
2007-10-31 18:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Need To Find Out The Girls Name Or Steal His Phone && Look In His Inbox.
2007-10-31 18:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. They could of known that you were listening and were trying to trick you to cause problems in your relationship.
2. You could get his phone and spy on him for awhile.
3. Ask indirectly.
4. Just wait and see if you get evidence.
5. Do you have any reason to believe this is true from your boyfriend's past behavior?
2007-10-31 18:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by catmoosebear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very doubtful the friends would lie about the message, why would they?
But also, their is nothing to suggest that ryan is doing anything inappropriate with this girl either, she might be just chasing him.
Can you check his phone out for yourself?
2007-10-31 18:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course confront him about it and if he denies it tell him what you over heard ,any way what dos you gut feeling say can u trust him do u trust him .there are no good liers becoz they always slip up in the end if there is no honesty or trust there is no relationship :-)
2007-10-31 18:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by this account is no longer in use 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww maybe the girl loves him but he is too into love with u to be in love with her! or >> he could be cheating on u. =(
2007-10-31 18:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋