ok so my boyfriend is telling me this isnt normal...is it. After we have sex and he ejaculates, it leaks outa me really bad. It has always done this with the 4 ppl i have been with. Is it normal or not. And will this effect my ability of getting pregnant?
2007-10-31 16:12:42 · 36 answers · asked by meow8384 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Um, no -- not stupid! Yes, ejaculate is supposed to leak out of you. There's nothing in your body to retain the fluid. (You're not a sponge or anything!)
Your body only needs one little sperm to get pregnant, and there are millions in that bit of fluid.
Just be ready with a towel. Your boyfriend is a dork - lol.
2007-10-31 16:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It is completely normal. Think of it this way. If liquid is put into a glass and then turned upside down it will pour out, right? Your vagina is like the upside down glass. There's no where else for his ejaculate to go but out. Don't let this make you think you can't get pregnant! The liquid in ejaculate is simply there to give the sperm an easier time swimming. Even if all of the ejaculate comes out, there still could be sperm remaining inside of you. Once they make it to your uterus they are pretty much home free and have a high chance of getting you pregnant!
2007-10-31 16:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, it is very normal. There is MILLIONS of sperm in every drop of ejaculation, the body has a natural way of ridding what is not needed. YOU can become pregnant even from pre ***. I would NEVER worry about it leaking out AT ALL. Just clean it up and move on.. Sex should NEVER be judged in anyway especially something that cannot be controlled. We are human and our bodies are amazing, the human body will pretty much take care of it self, you just need to nourish it and provide it care!!!
Hope that helped a little!! Good Luck in your baby making!!
2007-10-31 16:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by A 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have seen this before, but not in every case ... so I wouldn't say it's normal, but I wouldn't say it's not normal , either ...
It just happens with some girls ... don't worry about it a bit! Maybe your boyfriend just has a lot of fluid, or maybe has a real short you-know-what and when he comes, it isn't very far up inside you, so it all leaks out!
It won't keep you from getting pregnant .. it only takes one sperm cell trying Really Hard ...
ps ... if you want to make it 5 ppl, let me know
pps ...there aren't any stupid sex questions, just stupid answers ... hope this one wasn't one of them!
2007-10-31 16:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Roger M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually, I do not think this is a problem.....ejaculate is just a liquid, so it will come back out some......
So truly, this should not have an effect on your ability to get pregnant......those little guys are good swimmer's.......
You want to ask your physician about it just to make yourself feel better, but I would not worry about it......
2007-10-31 16:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Optimistic1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is totally normal. If it really bothers you and you are actively trying to become married without the benefit of a stable husband, then you could try putting you feet up on the wall for about fifteen minutes to make sure that the sperm has a chance. It isn't necessary...but you could do it if you think it will help.
Why don't you try to get married first? A child would benefit greatly from being born into a stable relationship with both a mother and -----a present and caring father in the home.
2007-10-31 16:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ayliann 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's totally normal... your vagina isn't a sphincter quite like your bottom - so you can't control whether something comes out of you or not. Hence our periods we bleed with no mercy. It won't affect your ability to get pregnant - it happens to everyone. If you want to get pregnant, maybe just... lay on your back for a while before standing up and having it drip out... or something. Lol. Why are you having a baby with your boyfriend if he's telling you it's not normal for something like that? It's normal. TRUST me. It's normal.
2007-10-31 16:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by red 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not abnormal. The semen and sperm will leave your body if there's an opening for it to leave. It's sorta like turning a glass upside and expecting the water not to leave it. If all the sperm leave your body you won't get pregnant. However, I'm sure some of it stays. I know when they say positions that have the woman on the bottom have higher chances of getting period. So
2007-10-31 16:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is gravity at work. Or maybe it's like water going down river. Take it how you want to, this is normal. It doesn't effect your ability of getting pregnant. There are hundreds of thousands of sperm in one ejaculation and it only takes one to get pregnant.
Regards,
Brandon
2007-10-31 16:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I thought I was the only one. This happens to me to and I used to think that it prevented me from getting pregnant. I don't think that there is research or anything to prove it but it took me more than 4 years to get pregnant. Learn from me, when you have sex, try to position yourself so that it wont leak out. I don't know if that is why it took me so long or not but if you want to get pregnant, you might as well try everything you can.
2007-10-31 16:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋