I have realized two things. I shouldn't keep things bottled up inside. For years I have never really dealt with issues in my life. Now after years of not doing that things that are not that serious become bigger issues. I has caused me to say or want to do things I have never thought of doing.
You got to be yourself. For years I thought it was being a nice guy was the source of my pain. When really it was me trying to shed that image that caused all of the pain and almost costed me my life a few times. Sometimes now I think that but its something I can't change. You are who you are. You can't change it no matter how hard you try.
2007-10-31 15:52:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i have realized that life is what you make of it.
if your life sucks, its your own fault because only you can change it.
not talking about you in general, im talking about anyone who is not happy.
2007-10-31 20:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have realized that you shouldn't always live in the past or in the future. We always think, "well, I'll do that next year" or "I'll go there when I've saved more money" or "I'll invite those people over when the house is cleaner" or "I would've done that if..."
At one point in my life I was told that I had something that was going to kill me. My main reaction was extreme anger that I had put off so many things in my life until "later" and it seemed that I was out of time and there would be no "later". I was devastated. I'd had so many great plans!
Then, I got a reprieve and found out that I wasn't dying and I was going to live! I decided then and there that I would go out and DO all the things I'd put off. Since then, I have lived more than I probably did in the entire first half of my life! It has been and continues to be awesome! Try it!
2007-10-31 16:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by KYGrace 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutly agree you cant change it no matter how hard you try. BUT you can learn from it.
I can hear that what ever it is that you are talking about must be something that is hurting you really did down inside.
Who are you???
Are you someone who wants to be content eith their life or are you someone who wants to learn more and more about yourself everyday and become stronger and wiser and happier.
Im saying this because you sound like you are at a place in your life where you need to bring some changes into your life and see what you can do for yourself tomorrow.
I wish you so much luck and best wishs for your future
2007-10-31 15:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by jenna l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been separated for a couple years, and now I've become very close to a supremely wonderful (and hot) woman. I'm not sure how it's all going to play out, but I've come to realize that maybe sometimes you do get second chances, and that you can't afford to blow them....I don't plan to.
2007-10-31 16:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yinzer Power 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come to realise that as well -- you cannot really become anyone other than whom you already are, and to try is nerve wracking and disappointing. The best thing to do is to learn to accept yourself as you are and don't be too critical. Just try to be the best you can be whilst still being YOU.
2007-10-31 15:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by ǝןqɐʇdǝɔɔɐun ʎןןɐıɔos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's good that you realized that. I have come to realize that I had negative thinking patterns that were holding me in a rut. I think positive now about everything, and take responsibility for everything that I let happen in my life.
2007-10-31 16:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've realized I need to let the past go fully in order to enjoy the present and future. Sometimes I focus on it too much.
2007-10-31 16:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've come to realized that I blame a lot of things on myself and that I need to be a more relaxed person. Nothing or nobody is perfect.
2007-10-31 15:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things? I have come to realize that people are no where near as smart as they believe; they are, perhaps, a tiny bit smarter than animals, but not nearly as smart as Neanderthals.
I have come to realize that Liberals is just another word for "communist", Nazi, fascist, etc. and the world is doomed to go on and on in war, hunger, and disease because of them.
I do believe that the others have such good points...
2007-10-31 16:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have come to realize that I need to get my a ss motivated and get back to school. I don't want to be a waitress for the rest of my life!
2007-10-31 15:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by adidasamir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anybody can change your trying to tell me bullies at schools hitler and so forth can't change your lying. I have learnt that you can acheive anything if you put your mind to it. And I've also learned that if you start hearing voices in your head go get help immediatley.
2007-10-31 15:57:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋