2007-10-31 15:11:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Been there, done that.... I had sucidal thoughts so many times I've lost count.... It can be hard when u r a gay boy living in a non-gay tolerant community..... But, when u think of all the good things in life..... for example, Ur family loves u, ur friends like u, the feeling goes away and is replaced by happiness... Don dwell on bad things... There is so much to be thankful for.... If u die, this world won't be the same... U r unique and without u... Things tat should have happened won't.... Life is not a battle, it is a journey... It might seem tat it is a journey full of hardships, but every cloud has a silver lining.... I wish i was there with u so i could hug u and tell u that everything will be okay.... Jus keep on living and savour everything tat life has to offer.... E-mail me if u wanna talk... My ambition is to be a counselour oneday.... hear from u soon...
2007-10-31 15:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Life=more than just living :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, feelinglike you don't want to live anymore and actually thinking how you can die are maybe not the same things.
If you are planning on dying, then please call someone. Get some help please, because it does get better. That is the ebb and flow of life.
I sometimes feel like I don't know if I want to be living because it's just so hard, and there is so much corruption and crapola in this world, however I don't want to die, I want to live my life and see what happens.
I already realized that all the little ideas and dreams of how my life would be are not going to happen. That does not mean that I do not enjoy the learning and challenge of this world because I do.
I have just had to adjust. Sometimes I honestly wanted to give up though and I hope if this is the case for you that you find what you need to guide you through.
2007-10-31 22:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Moltisanti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never actually thought about suicide as an option to 'solve' my problems but I have felt sometimes when life got really hard, i just wondered why i was even born, but those thoughs go away, and im happy to be alive usually, and love life, and i try my best to make myself feel better and solve everything for myself.
Dont let that thought worry you, just go with the flow of life, you mite be going thru a hard time now but it will get better belive me, it always does.
Take care
if u feeling depressed or even thinkin suicide, go talk to someone about it..like a school councilar or somefing ..oki?
good luck :)
2007-10-31 22:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. I always think of that when i'm sad..but now i don think of that when i'm sad. I always think of my family members who are going to suffer if i really were to commit suicide. Every1 will be affected. For example, ur mother. Ur mother would be so depressed that she would want to work no more. Stay at home and sleep all day. She would cry for you every night. She will have sleepless nights and would be suffering every day. Others in turn will be affected somehow. Her friends would be worried sick for her. Her friends cant concentrate when she's working and might cause troubles for herself. If her friends work in the food industry,she might be busy thinking of how to cheer your mum up and might accidentally pour some unwanted chemicals into the food without knowing or might cut herself in the process. The food then goes out to the market and get sold to some innocent buyer and the buyer will most probably get food poisioning. The company might get sued in the end and so on and on and i hate it. Its our own mistakes and we have to trouble others. Its very irresponsible and i hate it. Don ever take your own life. Cheer up ^^ Solve the problem and be a winner...Don be a sinner and take ur own life..^^
2007-11-01 09:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't like that feeling. Maybe only once in my life, when I was in high school. That was the time my mom discovered I had a girlfriend and she gave me the silent treatment for well over a year. I love my mom so much and it just hurts me that she would never understand that I'm gay... Well, we're doing much, much better since then but I'd really like for her to be able to accept the fact that I'm not who she expects me to be... Hope you've never felt like you just don't want to live any longer, it leaves a bitter taste in the mouth really. Take care! ;)
2007-10-31 22:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, lots of times. Why? because i'm lonely, have no REAL friends.. my family lives 11 hours away from me and i moved to live with my boyfriend and get a career job so I know no one here 'xcept him (well i do know other people but they just sort of have their ow lives.. its not like in college u can just make friends *snap* like that.. they got kids and jsut have their own lives u know) so, yeah. most the time im just out my myself i miss the old days so bad. Im not saying i want to commit suicide, i just get so bored and lonely that i just wish i didn't exist anymore. But im alive and well so im not taking that away. I'm just trying to deal with the loneliness and just carry on and hope things change.
2007-10-31 22:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by MedTq367 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, more times than you could count!!!
life just gets that hard and i'm only young so i don't even know what to expect as i grow older, as everyone tells me life gets harder as you go enjoy youth while you have it before everything becomes serious and you don't have time to have fun. which just triggers me even more as i find life hard enough at my age so it is just to stressful to even imagine my future, if i even have one!
like some of you others, yes i have seriously considered suicide...for a number of years infact as well i can sometimes no longer cope everything becomes to much!
i just wish that in life we could just rtake a brake..and i don't just mean a short weekend(which we normally end up busy through anyway) i mean more like 3 or 4 weeks just to ourselves to relax without having to worry about work, chores, study or anything!!!
i don't honestly know how anyone can live to an old age with all the stress and problems we face in life.... i'm still trying to figure out how i will make my way through highschool!
and all people seem to say is just go to a psychiatrist or talk to someone, but it's not that easy, i have never told anyone around me that i really feel this down and how hard things are for me. and i would just feel to pathetic telling my problems to a stupid psychiatrist. no offense to any!
but i mean i feel pathetic enough as it is just typing out this!
but it is good to have someone to turn to, that can cheer you up..i will admit that! even if you cannot see them. you see i have a cyber girlfriend who always gives me a reason to smile and cheers me up. that is the only reason i carry on my life i guess!
yea, i could go on forever but i feel stupid enough as it is!
so hope this answers your question!
2007-11-01 03:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Everyone romanticizes that it takes so much courage to step into the noose, but it takes at least twice as much courage NOT to.
Everytime you DON'T do it, you are giving the finger to life, and saying: F*^K YOU! Im not going down quietly and I will not be broken or bow down whatever you do!!!
You would do Sisyphus proud.
2007-10-31 23:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Joeyboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness no! I love life and thank God for the gift of life. I don't look for a permanent solution to temporary problems. I am a problem solver; I never surrender!
2007-10-31 22:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has at least once, for the most part. No matter how much money you have etc. there are going to be times you will be down in the dumps.
2007-10-31 22:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Pentagram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋