Is it just me? Or am I, the only one who has lived an extremely super boring marriage life, for the past 15 years!!!!
2007-10-31 14:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Happily married, unhappily married, separated/divorce, single mothers with children/kiddos are welcome to be friends with me here on Y/A. Thanks guys!
2007-10-31 14:53:56 · update #1
I'm in the same boat bro. We started out doing lots of things together when we first were married.
But slowly she stopped wanting to do activities, She put on lots of weight, and when I ask for both of us to go work out she says she'll go next week... Now all we do is watch TV, and I am in no way attracted, But I love her. I desperately want to have a fun relationship, but she is depressing.
2007-10-31 17:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by WilliamP 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it is boring because you have not put any effort into making it interesting and the sad part is that your marriage is over you just do not know it.Any marriage takes work and you have not been doing your job.My marriage is boring,if it is you made it boring.People must find things to do together and enjoy each other.Write back and tell everyone how boring life is when you are by yourself.
2007-10-31 15:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by junior1108 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends, I would think that it's a good thing to have a boring marriage. I've been married for eight years now; I was previously married to a complete moron for three years before that, so I am happy to be bored now. At least it's with my best friend, and I know there are no (unpleasant) surprises around the corner for me with this one also. Can't say that for my 'starter' marriage! ;-)
2007-10-31 15:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Derby Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure everyone has experience a time where they were extremely bored with thier marriage. That's when it's time to spark up the fire in the marriage and do something out of the ordinary. But it takes two Abe...
2016-04-11 06:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of adults forget how to have fun, and automatically blame it on the fact that they're married. Go places, do things you like. Indulge in your passions, together or apart. I live to ride horses and my boyfriend of 3 years (might as well call him husband) accepts that I will be out working my horses all day. It makes it all the more wonderful to come home and relax with him. Too often people get sucked into their careers and turn on the autopilot. They then blame each other for their misery. As long as you two truly care for each other and have no bad intentions, your relationship is fine. You just need to LIVE. Go somewhere awesome together. Does you like sports? Does she like sports? I used to pitch on a travelling tournament team, and my boy and I play baseball together almost every weekend. Kinda hard with just 2 people but I throw to him and he *tries* to throw to me. Haha. Find something you both thoroughly enjoy (not just kindof enjoy, like something that you don't mind doing but sometimes bores you... I mean really look forward too) and do it regularly.
2007-10-31 15:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the difference between a boring marriage and a not-boring marriage? I am easily entertained and don't have extremely high expectations, so my answer is no.
2007-10-31 15:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by x2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My life is soo boring, I can bearly stand it!! She has no friends, (only mine), who put up with her because of me!! She sulks/moans about over everything!! I wish she'd have a few affairs, anythings bettter than this!!!
2007-11-01 03:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All we did was **** , sometimes 10 times a day, very boring.
2007-10-31 14:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋