In April my brothers gf confided that she had met up with another guy who promised he could provide a better life for her and my nephew (1 yr old) but that they only met in a local park and they never had sex or anything. She then said that she had broken things off with this new guy. In August my brother told me he was fed up with his gf spending all her time chatting on msn and chatrooms and never spending time with him not to mention phone calls that often went on for hours in another room with a guy she said was 'a friend'. A week later she told my brother to move out because she wanted to be on her own for a while but even before he had moved out she had a guy in the house (not overnight) who she knew from msn or something. She continues to tell my brother they have a future and that she wants more children with him but at the same time her chat profiles etc make it clear she is single (and happy to be single). Is she playing him for a fool? I think so but I need a second opinion.
2007-10-31 14:48:07 · 12 answers · asked by Very happily married. 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds as if she is cheating on him, but doesn't want to burn her bridges just yet because she isn't yet sure of the new man in her life. her actions speak volumes about what her desires are. she wants to be with the other man, and not your bro. he needs to face reality and see the truth and decide what he needs to do.
2007-10-31 15:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No proof of actually cheating,although it sounds likely..but the lady is certainly a user and it also sounds as if she want to keep your brother on standby in case whatever she is hoping for right now doesn't work out.If I were him then i would tell her that we ought to make an agreement about child support and visitation rights just in case this "temporary separation" dragged on or one of us decided to make it permanent. You never know, if it sounds to her as if your brother is beginning to make plans of his own for the future, plans that do not have to include her, it may be the jolt she needs to stop playing silly games!
2007-10-31 22:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by selina.evans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-01 18:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say but yes, she is playin your brother. She will say what she has to to keep him around in case the other guy she is talking to doesnt give her what she wants. She will continue to do this to him unitl she finally realizes that she has lost him completely. It might be hard for your brother to do, but it will be the only way for him to really find out if she wants to be with him.
2007-10-31 22:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by dvspnoy17 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is making a comfortable transition for herself. Your bruv is on his way out (sorry mate) and she is testing the waters on this other bell end (who is getting played too) to see if he is ok-if it turns sour then bruv is back in to keep paying the internet bill...for now.
I hope to God I'm wrong, but her story is as fishy as John West. Good luck.
2007-10-31 22:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by johnstonemac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheat is a understament. she has proven that by the calls and living on the internet and the meeting in the park is your main thought . children by her no way hard to tell who there father.s might be she is lower than a cheat . my opion?
2007-10-31 21:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure sounds like it. Tell him to dump her and take the kid. that way she can have all the freedom she wants. Under NO circumstances should he have more kids with her,
2007-10-31 22:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Pappy D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that she is cheating. She is using your brother. Once she found a better guy, she will leave.
Your brother should dump her and move on.
2007-10-31 22:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Littlestar 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is setting your brother up to be her "plan B"
Tell him to run like the Gump!
Good luck.
2007-10-31 21:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds that way. bet she wouldnt like it if the shoe was on the other foot. tell your brother to forget her and move on.
2007-10-31 21:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by HeatherzFeatherz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋