Just wondering...did any of you marry a woman who was a virgin when you got married? If so, was it worth waiting for?
Did you share the same belief in waiting until marriage or was it something that you just had to accept?
(I'm just wondering because I am waiting until I am married. My boyfriend is not a virgin but completely respects my decision. I just wanted to know how other guys felt. Thanks for your answers!)
2007-10-31 14:31:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are a one in a million kind of beauty... the virginity thing is just a bonus. Keep true to yourself and your values. Don't sell out.
Good luck.
2007-10-31 14:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Depends from person to person. I was virgin untill I got married. And, it was worth it. For me it was more than just the act ... call me a little old fashioned. I had sex with the most important man in life and I would never regret waiting for him. I am not preaching, and I would have always prefered it this way. And my husband has always acknowledged this.
2007-11-01 11:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kavita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not a virgin when I got married, nor was my wife (although we had both been celibate for over three years). I know a few couples where one or both were virgins and they are very grateful that they waited. What you have is one of the few things that when you lose, you'll never be able to get it back
2007-10-31 22:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal thing.... but to be honest my wife was not a virgin and this was good cause she had some experience and knew her way around the "court" if you know what I mean.
But I think that its good for you to save yourself....he just needs to know that when you two do have sex that you will need some time to learn what you like and don't like... so PRACTICE PRACTICE after you have sex the first time :-)
2007-10-31 21:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was a virgin and I wasen`t My concept and what I think is. The woman to deserve to go on withe to Church's has to be virgin never use it, you know what I mean. And is the reason the man has to be on her Nick to make a wonder full family with respect and honestest. The other way woman can go with everyone she likes when the man go to work. And the man has a consideration of the woman to be a Horne .......not respect for future.
2007-10-31 21:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Vitorio 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wish I had the option for myself AND my wife but it never worked that way.
Wife was previously married and had one child. I became born again AFTER my time in the Navy. I regret it now but that does nothing now.
The sex between a man and a woman committed to each other is the best sex, HANDS DOWN. The love, work, and commitment between a husband and wife makes it all worthwhile.
2007-10-31 21:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If its important to you, then great.
But, have you ever waited to go on a famous roller coaster ride just to find out it wasn't all that great? The longer you wait the better you expect it to be then its just OK.
This is my answer as a guy.
2007-10-31 21:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i never have married or had any relationships but i know a friend who did wait but his wife cheated on him on their honeymoon, they didn't have sex either, she claimed she wanted a good time, so i guess it differes from person to person
2007-10-31 21:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything rare is always worth the wait!
point: virgin women very rare, priceless!
2007-10-31 21:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
those days are over ......
ok you get married,and dont like to have sex with him
then what ?
best test drive before you buy ,
i had sex before mar rage, i m glad i did.........
2007-10-31 21:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋