heres the situation, my wife and child live in canada, i live in the states, we've been married for over a year, and our son will be 1 years old in january. we fight constantly, my wife says that im never there for her and has extremely high expectations of what exactly i can do as a father to our son from 1200 miles away. i walk on eggshells anytime i talk to my wife because if shes angry at anyone or anything around her, she takes that anger out on me, i have to watch what i say. we've been working on immigration for me, and its taken forever because we've changed our plans at least 5 times, so we're now 1 year later and still not together. if things dont go the way she wants them to, or if i dont get the same conclusion or the same answer as she does, i get yelled/cursed at and hung up on. i constantly have to ask her to stop calling me derogatory names or trying to intentionally make me angry/annoyed. i dont know what to do
2007-10-31 14:25:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think there is a lot more to the story than you are telling here. Women don't get that angry unless there is another issue that is not being resolved. Perhaps you are the one who has put off moving because you are not truly committed to the relationship? If not, maybe that is way your wife feels.
Taking care of a baby is so tough, even with two people. Your wife is doing it alone, and she is exhausted and wants her husband home.I hope she has some family around that can help her. If not, she is probably very depressed and frustrated. I would call you names too.
You are not really being much of a husband or a father where things are as of now. Get your **** together, and go take care of the people you love.
2007-10-31 15:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you bring them to the states? If she continue to be the same in the states kiss her good bye. She is a bad lady for you, you will be yelled and cursed no matter if you are living together or when you away. Forget her and go on with you life.
2007-10-31 14:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is under a lot of stress she is raising a child basically alone, you are 1200 miles away, so cut her alittle slack....
2007-10-31 15:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by LV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally.... I think you should understand your wife. shes raising your child alone. ALONE. Shes stressed and upset. Sounds to me like shes angry with you because she misses you. Maybe stop victimizing yourself, and start trying to find a solution.
2007-10-31 14:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are fighting and you live 1200 miles away think of how bad it would be to live together....stay in the US!!
2007-10-31 14:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is..how much do you love her and want to be with them? Try to stay focused on the good things and stay away from talking about the move.
2007-10-31 14:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by mizzgrizz01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to move? You two cannot even have a phone conversation without all of this. Can you really live like that? I could not.
2007-10-31 14:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds angry because you are her husband and the father of her child and you are LIVING IN ANOTHER COUNTRY..... something is obviously wrong with that. pack your stuff and move to be with your family. things should work out after that. i mean, you married her because you loved her, right? so be with her
2007-10-31 14:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by LISA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would be happier if you guys got a divorce. If so give her one if not tell her that she has to stop calling you names and treat you with respect. Don't let her put you though hell because she isn't happy.
2007-10-31 14:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋