because you felt that if you brought them out in the open it would effect the friendship??
2007-10-31 12:44:38 · 22 answers · asked by Ginny 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes. it hurts a lot, especially when you think youre more than friends.
2007-10-31 12:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have, indeed. Quite often.
Some are idiots, ruining their lives and the lives of others. If gentle coaxing can't repair that, I leave it alone.
Others I've lusted for, but it's a simple thing to suppress such fantasies.
Some have hurt or slighted me, taken advantage of me. Those I forgive and carry on.
The last and fewest are those I've abandoned for fear they'll bring me to their level due to the same reasons listed above.
2007-10-31 12:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do, cause all it gets me is alot of hurt even thou I do try to hint at my feelings for that individual which are usually picked up right away, and then I'm cut off at the pass so to speak. Not so with me thou, I'm not so savvy at that sorta thing....picking up hints, must be a guy thing.
2007-10-31 13:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, i did for a long time. finally i told him, and yep, he already knew, guess i'm like an open book! our relationship is the same, it's me hanging, and him giving mixed signels. but we get along great, i love him, and never want to lose him no matter what the future holds.
2007-10-31 12:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes.... without a doubt I have. It's a tough thing to do, that's for sure, but you just have to decide what's best for everyone involved. Like if he happens to be married, lol, it's probably best to just shhhhhhh..... Just a thought, hypothetically speaking of course! lol
2007-10-31 14:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cowgirl Up Yours 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've done that more times then I would like to count. It hurts to get let down but it hurts more to hold everything in.
2007-10-31 12:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No...If it pisses them off and they can't discuss it or get pissed off about it I don't see how I can call them my friend....Thats the whole idea of friendship...being able to discuss ANYTHING....At least I thought it was....
2007-10-31 13:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by karens lovinlife 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Almighty YES...
2007-10-31 14:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by tim b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have tried to but they all ways pop out.
2007-10-31 12:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did once. Now, looking back, it was the biggest mistake of my life...
Live and learn...I guess.
2007-10-31 14:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by wanjoy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋