It's like for white guys, if you gain a half a pound, that is a reason to leave you and cheat on you, but heck, black and latin men cherish rolls LOL, why are white men so cricital?
2007-10-31 06:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Sounds like you've had a run-in with some white guy? not all white men are like that.
2007-10-31 06:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by haids 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
How can you generalise like that? It's hardly fair to say that white men will leave you or even cheat on you just because they're white and picky. What about all the black and latin men who leave their partners or cheat on them?? Have you asked them all why they're so picky? No, probably not.
And speaking from personal experience, not all black or latin men "cherish" rolls.
2007-10-31 06:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because our society/media has made them seem too desireable, thus giving them an inflated ego and a sense that they can treat women as disposable (this doesn't apply to all caucasian men and it does apply to other ethnicities, but it is certainly prevalent in white culture). If women as a whole stopped caring about what they thought (dismissing their loud mouthed ideas of what a woman should be like -- because lets face it, the only people who knows what women should be like are women), stopped putting emphasis on their supposed worth as a mate, and only sought out men who accepted them as they are, which are ever changing beings, regardless of gender.. there would be a definite change in attitude.
Instead of focusing on race, look at how intelligent they are. The men who are shy, who are on the nerdy side, who are not porn obsessed, and are genuinely concerned about the feelings of the girl that they are worth.. they are the ones that women should be seeking. They will not try to have sex with you on the first date, and they will not pressure you to look or conform to what their idea is of a "hot chick". Usually if they have fewer friends (ideal would be a handful of close friends who share the relative same mentality) that is a plus, it means that they are an independent-minded individual who are not concerned about the approval of their friends of their lives and who is in their life.
If it makes any difference, my boyfriend is half asian and half white. He is gorgeous and extremely respectful of me. He is also very attentive of my feelings. He's the kind of guy that will bend over backward to make me happy, and is accepting of every part of me (physically, mentally and spiritually). And you know what? I reciprocate wholly the same feelings for him. That's what a working relationship should be.
2007-10-31 06:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend (white) is 6'2 and weighs around 210 so he isnt fat or skinny (both unattractive to me). I like his hunky figure and its so sexy! Im black and I am 5'2 and weigh around 130..... not fat or skinny and I have those curves that he goes gaa-gaa over. I cant say how many times I have caught him staring at me lol its cute. Anyway, i think if a guy is going to get picky because of my weight, then I'll help him analyze HIS weight to find out if he also needs to lose weight. It seems in this culture, it is okay for men to be overweight or fat, but when women get the same way, oh then its a problem.
I have seen some white men with non-skinny women, so you may have a bit of a stereotype there.
2007-10-31 06:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
That's a pretty general statement, some white guys like thicker women some don't. You could say the same thing about black or Hispanic men, why do they like heavy set unnattractive women, why are they so picky, whey don't they like pretty skinny women? Many races seem to prefer one type of women over another, however not everyone in every race follows that generalization. I just want to point out htat you could say the same thing about other races as well.
2007-10-31 06:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by chillinginchicago 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Because we can be.
There are approximately 3 women to every man on this planet, 99% of whom would love to hook up with a professional male that makes an income in the upper 20 percentile, is educated, knows how to live well, and enjoys the finer things in life.
Therefore we can afford to be choosy as there are always more fish in the sea, and we don't even have to catch them...they come to us.
Look...it sounds hard and arrogant but it is the friggin truth. My question is if it is white guys you want, and you know what we like, why don't you loose the "rolls"? BTW..1/2 a pound does not give you "rolls"....
2007-10-31 06:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by guyin559 2 · 0⤊ 7⤋
It's not only black men people are different you cant pit all white under the sam category
2007-10-31 06:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ill tell you right now They arent picky when it comes to one night stands,,, guys in general will hump anything..... Some white guys are stuck up and are picky when it comes to there girl because white guys are jelous guys they wanna keep you like a trophy... hahaha I dunno if yo like white guys stay away from the cocky ones
2007-10-31 06:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Chante O 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but my man is as white as they get, and after i had his 2 babies back to back, i did gain a little weight, and even though im slowly getting back into shape, he has never shown anything but complete desire for my body the whole time...
2007-10-31 07:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
My husband is white (actually Vietnamese/German) and he loves my curves. LOVES them. I'm 5'7" and about 150lbs. Not fat all, just very curvy. There's one thing to gain a couple pounds and to get chunky and unsexy. Even men of other races might find a woman who doesn't take care of her body unattractive.
2007-10-31 06:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋