Is this a reason to be offended?..?

Question

*I told a friend of mine in a letter I wrote to her (we're both college students) that guy friend of mine who is acquainted with her military school, thinks all the chicks at her school are fugly and when I showed him a picture of her, he changed his mind and he told me to tell her that she'll probably get hit on by buchtes (lesbians and horny guys)-lol. So, I told her to be careful. She's fine last time I recalled when I mentioned something like this. She doesn't seem like the picky anti-homo type, she's made jokes with me too about butches.. Would you get upset if I said that?..it's suppose to be a compliment, as she's pretty that everyone wants her type of thing. *Reason for asking this is because she has yet to reply to the letter I sent her, and when I''m pissed at people, I ignore them and she does too. It's been a month. What do you think?...
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*I just don't want to ask her if she got it, as I don't want to seem like I care too much etc.

Answer 1

You know your friend pretty well sounds like to me and she may be offended if it came across the wrong way in a letter, rememeber a letter is not like looking at each other while you are talking, its in a totally different context so I think you should try to call her if you really want to fix your relationship. I know I wish I had held on to more of my friends when I was younger, now I don't get see very few of them and if we would have been closer then we might be closer today.

Answer 2

Not usually would something like this really offend me that much but maybe she is gay and that's why she is offended or she could be busy, who knows, wait it out a bit more and just email her NICELY and ask and preemptively apologize. say if u did offend her for some reason that u are truly sorry and didn't intend on doing that, also, that u value her friendship.