I am 19 years old and the last time I cried was 2 months ago. I am a male and I had cried caused by 4 girls. Each girl I had cried severel times. Do girl cry such the number?
2007-10-31 05:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by do everything 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's healthy to cry.
There are good scientific reasons for this. Studies show that tears cried when you're sad (compared to tears caused by onions or irritation) contain stress chemicals.
For a guy, even if it's healthy, our cultural rules make it harder to be emotionally safe when you cry, so it's probably a good idea to cry alone or around people who will understand and not judge you.
2007-10-31 06:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by thenwhen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Severly sad people often react by crying. Many people say that crying relieves tension and makes them feel better, but the evidence says otherwise. While people are crying, sympathetic nervous system arousal and other signs of tension visibly increase. Relaxation occurs when people STOP crying. Even then, they may be no more relaxed than if they had not cried at all. But...it is natural and it's okay!
2007-10-31 06:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Me<3<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as an older guy I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with showing your emotions. Let it out. I finally learned that if a good cry lets you realease a lot of anxiety and stress let it go. If something happens that is emotional enough to make you want to cry, imagine what that stress is doing to your body inside. Stress held in causes all kinds of medical issues and that can happen to people your age just the same as mine,.
2007-11-02 10:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alright to cry man. Its just another way of dealing with emotional pain. One of the more healthier ways too in fact. I, personally, don't cry and havent in about 5 years, but when a lot of emotional stress is piled on me, I don't eat; complete loss of apetite for like days at a time. Very bad way of coping, alas its what is programmed in me. Its perfectly natural; we all have our own way of dealing. And if it is girl trouble that caused it, if I understand you correctly, I COMPLETELY understand and share your pain man. And I don't want to make an entire generalization about all women, but I personally haven't met a girl that doesn't cry a lot. and I mean a lot. Moral: It happens, its natural, and its healthy.
2007-10-31 06:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by danimal2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can cry easily over a guy, and probably more than 4 times. I'm happy you're not one of those men who try to keep it all inside. It's not healthy and will drive you crazy later.
2007-10-31 11:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by peaceablefruit206 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. I cry more than that, some people cry less, some people don't ever cry.
2007-10-31 05:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Aly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its better to cry than to take it deeper problems with you...its nice to let it out...
2007-10-31 06:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by calipinay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it is.
2007-10-31 05:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude girls cry more than that...and dude why were you crying??
2007-10-31 05:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by DM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You gotta cry!!!
2007-10-31 06:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋