I want to have another baby Im 24 and Im still with my bf we have a daughter that is 14 months old. I live with my mom and he lives with his mom we both work and we are looking for a place right now. Is it to early to have another baby. Should I be worried about what my family would say. My mom said if I get pregnant again she will kick me out.
2007-10-31 05:01:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My suggestion is to wait until you and your bf have a place together. Then talk about having another child with your bf. I don't think your mom would really kick you out if you were to get pregnant while living with her but I could be wrong. You know her better then I do. If you know she would follow through with her threat then I would wait. But in the end it is up to you and your bf on when you both feel you are ready for another baby. Good luck
2007-10-31 05:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lurinda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is too early to have another baby right now if you are still living at home with your mothers. I mean that is pretty selfish and thoughless of you to put another baby on your mothers responsibilities right now while you are still living under her roof. I don't blame her for not wanting you to get pregnant again when you aren't even fully supporting you and your baby now. I say that because you are living in her house regardless of whether or not you are working, you still live off of her and she has every right to feel that way. If you and your man want to make a family, then live like one, and grow up and get out of your mommies houses.
2007-10-31 12:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does your bf think?
As long as you are both healthy, you can start when you get a place together. You may find once you live together that it isn't the right time, there isn't enough money, or you don't even like living with him...
You are young, whats the hurry?
2007-10-31 12:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you should have another baby while your still staying in your mothers house because for one if she kick you out then where are you going to stay? and will your boyfriend take you in? and if something was to happen with you getting pregnant again i wouldnt worry about what my family say because your a grown woman, but on the other hand you are staying in your mothers house
2007-10-31 12:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by tangy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son will be 14months on the 1st november and we are ttc#2. im 22yrs old an my partner is 25yrs old... and weve been together over 5yrs (only weve owned our own house for 3 yrs now).i dont think it matters how old you are or how young your other child is - as long as your in a happy and stable relationship and its what you both want - its a decision that only the two of you can make regardless of others! (just dont do it under your parents roof! as that is disrespectful i think!) hehe!!
as for your mum kicking you out - would she honestly see her daughter and grand-daughter living on the streets - i doubt it!! get in touch with your local council - they will set u up home!
2007-10-31 12:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till you find a place. Normally I would say not to worry what your family says but if she is saying she will kick you out, I would listen. Plus it will be a better situation for you and your kids to all be under one roof. Good luck!
2007-10-31 12:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Girl Rylin 5/3/08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you guys are living together. It kinda already sucks that you aren't living together and have a 14 month old. It could be confusing to her. But good luck in whatever you choose.
2007-10-31 12:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly shouldnt you find a place to live together before you bring another baby in this world. I mean come on, you live with your mom & he lives with his!!
2007-10-31 12:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even be thinking about another baby until you move out of your moms.
2007-10-31 12:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by ROBIN T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait. The responsible thing would be to get married, and find a home that the two of you can share with your children.
2007-10-31 12:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by *Moni* VOTE 08! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋