2007-10-31 04:35:17 · 47 answers · asked by Beckham 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It all depends how I find it out. It could be a compliment to know that even though there are many people out there I am the chosen one or be totally horrified and angry for suffering STI's being that the cause and we promised to be 100% honest and if either of us needed any more space it always be the other one first in the know!
2007-10-31 12:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Marmite Juice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner was BI before you met and the person chose to be with you then as long as that partner is faithfull to you then why worry.If the person found out after by having a relationship with a same sex partner then He/She has been unfaithful.Ask yourself the question what would you have done if that partner had been unfaithful with a person of the opposite gender.
2007-10-31 07:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're not bisexual yourself then discovering your partner is bisexual may bring up a load of fears along the lines of the following:
"this means my partner is on their way to being homosexual/heterosexual"
"this means my partner is going to run off with a member of whichever sex is opposite to me"
In reality, bisexuality takes many different forms.
The first thing you need to remember is that being bisexual does not automatially mean bye bye to your relationship. A lot of bisexuals are faithful to one partner, and being bisexual doesn't automatically mean they're going to cheat on you. It can happen, but no more or less likely than with heterosexuals and homosexuals.
Your best bet is to be supportive to your partner. If you're homosexual or heterosexual, you may not understand your partners attraction to both genders. Not understanding it doesn't mean there's something wrong with it. You need to resolve this matter by assuring yourself that some people are attracted to one gender and others are attracted to both genders.
If your partner is open about their sexuality, he/she may assure you that despite being attracted to both sexes - he/she chose you. This is something you also need to remember.
2007-10-31 23:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be upset. I don't think there is anything wrong with bisexuality but I would then have women and men to worry about. I sometimes have this feeling that my boyfriend is gay as he has loads of friends that are but then I slap myself for being an insecure freak. I would hate it. I know I should be secure and not be bothered because he is with me but I would panic. I wouldn't like the thought that my boyfriend was attracted to something I am attracted too. It would be weird. Great question.
2007-10-31 04:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you find out your partner is bisexual....why should it matter. As long as you know they're being faithful to you, and you love them...be together. Nothing is different about the relationship.
2007-11-01 17:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find myself being attracted to mannish girls, does that count?
I guess the point is that sexuality (and what happens to turn someone on or not) is so confusing, can frequently change year to year that it's pointless to get mad or feel misled or whatever.
The key, I think, is to maintain really open communication. You two either have to agree that despite his/her other sexual interests, you will maintain total monogamy. Or you will have to agree that your partner has a very strong sexual impulse that you cannot fulfill, and you will have to relent to allowing him/her to go out and seek that with someone else occasionally, for the sake of keeping him/her happy and sane, which will in turn benefit your relationship.
2007-10-31 05:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by tidy mess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Treat him the same! Duh! Just because he's bisexual, doesn't meant that he's cheating on you or has orgies every other day. It doesn't make him any different. He's still the same person.
Oh, by the way, I say he cause I'm a girl, but I guess it would count for a girl partner as well.
2007-11-01 14:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by AbCad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way my guy is bisexual, so it's nothing I would ever have to deal with. Before anyone becomes my "partner" I make certain I know as much about this person as possible. I got some surprises with one of my exes and learned my lesson quickly!
2007-10-31 04:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if u r both committed to each other and not cheating then it shouldn't matter as ur partner is with u and just u. my gf identifies as a bisexual woman but i know she loves and is 100% committed to me and only me. yes she still likes guys but her focus is 100% on us. i found it tough to deal with at first but I got over myself as I had to say who cares whether she likes men and women, she's with me now and we are very much in love and extremely committed to one another.
2007-11-01 07:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tubbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him lol - a partnership/relationship should mean monogamy and if your partner is bi then he will be looking for sexual encounters with both sexes - not an ideal situation!
Mike
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2007-10-31 23:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by mike4nick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋