If youv had a eventfull year full of self harm, deaths, fighting, arguements, moving schools, and lots of other traumatic events...how can you get yourself to move on and stop being sad. And GET OVER IT. lol thanks. and i go out with my new friends who r great all the time. oh and school is private and i cant keep up with there work any suggestions? they might expell me for being dumb....
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2007-10-31 04:10:51 · 4 answers · asked by Cimantha 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh and yes i am still self harming and no one nos except for a few friends
2007-10-31 04:11:17 · update #1
Sam,
I know that life gets hard sometimes, but It won't always be like this. You must take it a step at a time and not let thoughts of harming your self get in. Busy your self with studying and it will help in many ways. It will help you to not hurt yourself and will help with school as well. Study with your new friends that could help a lot. You seem to have had a lot of bad things happen but honey bad things are going to happen in life, there's no way to get around that. But You Can Rise Above All Of It. Be good to your self, love yourself. You are Important, You are smart, You are beautiful. There isn't one person on this earth that isn't just what they were meant to be. Believe in yourself you are worth it. The best thing for healing a broken heart is talking to someone about it. Someone who is an adult who can give you good advice. Your friends can tell you to stop hurting yourself, but are to young to understand it fully. You need to talk to a counselor, or a teacher or your parents, maybe a favorite aunt or uncle. Please TALK, TALK, TALK, TALK.
2007-11-01 03:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by thornfieldaffens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are talking about school you sound like you have your whole life and a great future ahead of you. Don't let yourself be dragged down by the old devil himself. You are very smart I am sure and you can overcome all this. During hard times for me I read my Bible, and go to Church, it definitely lifts me up and I know it will lift you up to. Get involved with your community too as this will give you something to do that will take your mind off all the sad things you have had to deal with this year. I will be praying for you and email me anytime. Remember the sun comes up tomorrow and you can choose to be an overcomer, I speak from experience okay because I was, and I know you can be one too. God Bless YOU and good luck the rest of the Year!!!
2007-11-02 18:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to talk to an adult, parent, aunt, uncle or school counselor about getting special counseling.
If you are cutting or self mutilating it is very hard to stop, my sister used to cut her legs while shaving or she would destroy her face so she told me what she needed help with and then any time she was in the bathroom she had me join her to help her stop. I would not let her hurt herself or stay in there to long to be tempted (this works if you have a close same sex family member) also setting a timer whenever you are in the area you normally hurt yourself for my sister it was the bathroom.
second you need to talk to your school counselor and let them know what is going on they will normally help you get extra credit or special tutoring when they know that you have alot going on in your life especially with deaths.
really hope things start getting better for you.
2007-10-31 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, In the war, my Brother actually died in my arms. I lost more than 3/4 of the people I knew, and quit making friends altogether because it didn't hurt as bad when they got it. Let me tell you, you "Never" get over it. You simply learn to live with it. life deals a whole MESS of nasty blows at you, and you have to roll with the punches and keep on going. just learn to live with it hun. and another thing,, Do-Not let people get inside your head so easily, like someone saying "What stupid shoes", Tell them, yeah, I can go home and change these though, you cant change that hideous-face! Let it go in one ear and out the other. let no-person rent-space in your head who means nothing to you to start with. Hope this helped you hun. You Take Care, and God Bless. 1st Sgt., 7th Special Forces, (Ret.) Vietnam 67-70
2007-10-31 11:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by KatVic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋