this is not helpful to impress others but it gives mostly negative results, the people do not give me proper respect, they immitate me as a joker. But i think i am not talking with others in a metured way.
2007-10-31 03:52:30 · 4 answers · asked by PRASANNA 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds like perhaps a lack of self esteem and a way of trying to gain that by talking too much with others. concentrate on building up your self esteem and you will find that you don't feel as much need to talk to them unless you really have something important to say and they will then listen more as well.
Here is a link to a couple of books that will give you a start in that direction. Good luck!!
2007-10-31 04:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, you are still looking for something in life you haven't been able to get as yet, and so you do sale yourself as if in an unconscious quest for better in your life. You are looking for other's attention just to say something as "hey! look at me. I'm a an able and intelligent person."
See how often people who got what they expected in life are calm and quiet persons.
Note that it's just a theory. I don't know you enough to be sure about it.
2007-10-31 04:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and listen to other people talk. You will impress them more with your listening skills then your speaking skills. Everyone wants to be heard, not just you.
2007-10-31 04:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Carboom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self dont worry about impressing others if they dont like you for you then u dont need them around
i learned from experience
2007-10-31 04:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥His Baby Girl♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋