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I was sitting with my friends and one of them was talking about a girl........ this girl is in the same college with us........we just know her as a colleague....... he start to talk about her body and saying nasty words......... and the other guys share with him the laugh ........ I told them to stop talking like that about her..... they told me you are in a love and they laughed....... but I was just feeling bad that we are talking bad and nasty about a person in her back.......Then I wonder....... Are morals now a bad thing in the present life ??????? ..... Why they feel happy when they talk like this........?? ... Do I look like freak for that community not sharing with them this stuff ??? ...... Is it a men talk and its ok????..... What I suppose to do ?? share with them??? .........
The most important thing ?? ...... where are morals gone???...
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I told him to relax..... and I will ask on yahoo and answer him.....
So please .... Tell me your opinion.....
2007-10-31 01:31:14 · 20 answers · asked by The Clown 3 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
I had that problem when I was in Egypt! Try to make immigration! It's better for you! Egyptians can't stand each other! They r tortured & that's why they hate each other! As a result! But for now! Don't share in that staff & don't show you're against! Just leave after giving any excuse or try to change the direction of the conversation towards anything else!! Try telling a joke! Or fazoura!!Something funny! Don't show you're right & they r wrong! Just to keep your friendship! Keep cool man!!You're right & they're wrong! But you can't change them!! This is their culture & they've been raised up like this!!
2007-10-31 07:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by donia f 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I often disagree with the moral coarseness today's kids exhibit. Here's the rub: just about every generation says the very same thing. For example, in the 1950's, Elvis 'the Pelvis' was thought to be uncouth; sometimes his records were boycotted or even burned. By today's standards, Elvis would be considered plain vanilla.
Manners and etiquette sometimes are out of style, but they are never wrong. After all, the only way that manners will ever become vogue again is if more of today's kids adopt them. Your friend was right, it wasn't right to speak of the girl the way that they did. Just because it is somewhat normal today does not make it right. There will come a day when your friend's manners are appreciated and the other friends are left talking to themselves.
What's more is that today's kids think that being more individualistic, expressive and extreme (which is just fine) is at odds with having manners. In truth, it is at the core. If you are disrespectful to yourself and to others, you become just a thug.
2007-10-31 01:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by swimeveryday 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Then I wonder....... Are morals now a bad thing in the present life ??????? ..... Why they feel happy when they talk like this........?? ... Do I look like freak for that community not sharing with them this stuff ??? ...... Is it a men talk and its ok????..... What I suppose to do ?? share with them??? .........
The most important thing ?? ...... where are morals gone???..."
Who are you?
Ask yourself: "Who am I?'
What do "I" believe?
Forget people. You have to live and answer for YOU only.
Can you sleep on your pillow at the end of the day with a clear conscious? Because at the end of the day, YOU are the only one that has to live with the results of what you have done.
NO ONE else reaps what you sow, except for YOU.
You are the one that has to live with what you do, NOT them.
Now, what do you think of what they did?
Let me tell you something, "If you want to KNOW the character of a man, look at his friends." Do you WANT to be known as being like them? If not, then find new friends, because sooner or later, you will become what you hang around.
Do you have self-respect? Anyone with self-respect would NOT be dealing with people who talk like this. A person that has self-respect, does not talk bad or down to another.
What kind of person are you? Can you stand strong? Can you get up in discustment and leave the conversation if you disagree?
Stand by your morals, if you think it is wrong, then it is wrong. If you just sit their, snicker and laugh along, you lose respect in their eyes. Weak people need someone to respect, if you just sit there and say and do nothing, they think you agree. Cowards run in packs. Don't be afraid no matter where you are from to stand by the good, to speak up and stand up.
Is DOES not matter what another's "morals" are. All that matters is: "What do I as an individual believe?" Walk in that. People need leaders, not more followers. Real leaders make leaders, not followers.
When you speak up or stand up, you then become the leader. The leader of WHO? Yourself. Before you can lead another, you must first learn to govern yourself. That means owning yourself. That takes real strenght and real guts.
Do you have what it takes? If not, then sit down amoung the coyotes and keep laughing and snickering. In the end you will never discover individuality, in the end you will never lead, you will lose respect for yourself and your beliefs, and last of all, when all is said and done, you will be the only one left to reap, the shame it brings on your own head. As you discover that no one really respects a man, that can't first respect himself.
The choice is yours. A choice is a little thing, it doesn't take much strength to make one, yet with each truth made, it buids more strength, more inner power to do the right thing.
Good day!
2007-10-31 03:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
According to morals and religion, you did the right thing. They are just shallow guys and they just laugh and make like each other. People like that they don't use their minds and think. They use to hurt many people in the same way.
Just try to find the suitable words to remind them that you say the right thing according to good morals, religion and mental health. Remind the one who oppose you, that only the person who feels unwanted and girls not attracted to, is the one who feels better when talking this way.
Remember if the girl they speak about may be seem to like you or close to you, they are doing that in purpose either jealous or to tease you.
2007-10-31 15:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Heart 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
clown u are a very goood person actuall i respect those kind of men and i call then regala (that are like u)
no u are in the good way
u know when a man talks about a women with a bad thing even if she is that bad he is going to hell
today our religon is tradition not ISLAM
our religon is the hijab of the girl not the morals
2007-10-31 10:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is just a small example of what have become of our nation, and by nation i mean the Arab nation, that's exactly the behavior our enemies wants us to follow and we are following it with passion.
Our morals are there, but buried under thick confusion sand, we still know the good from the bad, but for how long.
The minute we stop asking ourselves about our actions, we will know we hit rock bottom.
2007-10-31 04:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by MoRmEx 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing it shows you have respect for your self and other around you. Your friends talking about others like that just shows they have no respect for anything and one day when they meet someone they really like she won't be interested cos she will know from others how he talked about others.
It good you have morals and respect don't change to fit into that crowd they are no good stick to how you are.
2007-10-31 05:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm not a guy to answer this, but I have to tell you that your friend should not be hanging out with those losers. He should find himself some decent friends, and thank God there are still decent people in this world. Just because we see the bad does not mean there is no more good. Just look around hard enough and you'll see it everywhere.
2007-10-31 03:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yoursa is simply a refreshingly mature way of relating to women. Good for you - just do not change, It was even more mature of you to stand up to your friends; I know who is the most likely to find a really nice girl to go out with.
2007-10-31 04:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is Exactly what i feel
Also my friends always use dirty lunguage and words about any girl pass
and when i tell them anything they just ignore me or make fun of me
i dont really know what is the soultion with this manner descending?so if u have the answer tell me.
2007-10-31 02:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Adham 1910 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋