this guy had date me this evening where we are not a couple yet. it have also double confirm again today but two hour later, he sms to say he have to help a friend to do something and say sorry and cant meet up. He didnt even bother to call.. this is consider first time he stood me up.. but there are few times he annoy me whichi felt he did it on purpose...
But i think he dont even think i am important enough to him and friend is more important to him rite? I call him and he just reply nonchantly and dont care at all.. i feel played and maybe he wasnt really interested at all and just want me to get angry and say goodbye. what you think? i feel so hurt and cheated...
2007-10-29 23:29:41 · 11 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm really sorry to hear about this. I hope that things work out for you.
It sounds to me like you are not the only person that he has been dating.
It may sound unfair of me to say this, but do you really think he would have cancelled on you to 'help a friend' when he had confirmed several times.
Stop calling him for a few days and see if he calls you.
If he doesn't then he probably is not that interested.
You have to decide for yourself if you are going to persue this man.
I have persued a man for 3 years to the end of the earth.
When you love someone you don't let go.
I don't care about the "line" if you love someone let them go and if they come back to you they were yours.. but thats crap.
If you love someone you don't let go.
Thats the way it is.
2007-10-29 23:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by FawneMine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, move on. This guy is rude, at best--and who wants that? You are just asking for more hurt, should things continue.
Yes, there will come times where a friend WILL be important, but that should never be at the cost of manners. This guy sounds like he's playing games. Be the winner and blow the whistle.
2007-10-30 06:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was really interested he would have atleast had the courtesy to call you and check up on you.
Being stood up sucks for everyone but if he had a heart he would have apologized.
Get over him and find someone new who will leave a better impression
Sounds like this guy isnt even worth it
2007-10-30 06:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by newly born 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy doesn't respect you granted ya stick by your mates no matter who ya meet or go out with but he could at least explain. if he cared about you he wouldn't be throwing mixed signals he would be honest and say sounds like this guy wants to have you as his bit of fun and have good time with his mates or is up to something dodgy with his mate. i cut the ties now before ya get hurt further if his choosing his mate already think of what it be like if ya keep meeting him ya be miserable
2007-10-30 06:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Maria L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey u dont get disappointed.i think u r clever and lucky.He is going to use u for his sake.dont get cool with him.ask him frankly r u my friend r not? if so then why r u dating me.ok.if u r intertested take care and be sure of his character.dont think in silly way.always be positive.
2007-10-30 06:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he will surely get back to you...he had some work to help his friend but he loves you...and you too love him...i can understand that fm ur question!..
u asked this question because you love him and care for him...so dont listen to the practical ppl above...or try to test him wid ur weapon-experience...go ahead sweetie..
2007-10-30 06:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of fish in the sea, but only one right guy for u..
Move on, and forget about him.. you'll be happy and if he does like you he'll be back..
2007-10-30 06:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by yilotanakazok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to hit the road. Find a new someone.
2007-10-30 06:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter what his intentions are. he is rude. you deserve better. move on to someone else. do not be a doormat. it will only get worse if you allow him to get away with this.
2007-10-30 06:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're overreacting. He cancelled on you. Just move on.
2007-10-30 06:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋