Try to narrate from your personal experience not researched or downloads from internet
2007-10-29 21:40:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi there !
I know that you are wrong...and that too...
absolutely wrong..
best wishes !
2007-10-30 04:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by suresh k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe it as my own personal experience says that my wife enjoys sex as much as she had enjoyed it before giving birth to our first child. I think most ladies after child birth think of the baby only or put to sleep the baby in between them on the bed. This naturally distract their attention from the husband and sex that is to happen. If this go on for few days/months then interest in sex will come down to such a level that they think they are living only for the child. This should not be allowed and the baby should be accommodated separately from the couple in the same room or another room. The couple should concentrate more on their private life than spending more time to the baby. This way sex after child birth can be enjoyed for a long long time.
2007-10-31 17:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by JP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Mum of 4 I have to ask SAYS WHO?
Sure after the birth there are physical things that hurt and have to heal, but that doesn't last too long. And it could be that the woman feels that that area isn't as attractive as it once was, and of course there's the tiredness that comes from night feeds and stuff. Of course women without kids don't have to deal with that stuff.
And some husbands/fathers have difficulty coping with the idea of having sex with "a mother" rather than just a wife/girlfriend.
But from personal experience it didn't stop us for long. I can honestly say its never been more than 6 weeks.
Married 23 years now, and still do it
2007-10-29 21:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's totally bogus. I don't know where you got that idea!
Actually, my drive has increased as i've gotten older, and sex feels better to me than ever. I had a child several years ago (by c-section, but it really makes no difference) and I love sex.
The only thing I think you could be talking about is women with very young children. Those kids can absolutely wear you out. So maybe some of those women are too physically tired to get into sex right now, but that changes.
Either way, don't assume this. Because it's wrong. Most of the women I know who have kids LOVE sex too!
2007-10-29 21:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you sure that women who have not delivered kids enjoy sex? After marriages, for most of them it is a ritual to please the husband. How many husbands make sure that their wives also get orgasm in sex? Most of them are just in a hurry to finish it off and go to sleep leaving the dissatisfied wife keeping her eyes open. God's creation is such that the lady need not get an orgasm to conceive. Just depositing the sperms during the ovulation period is enough. When I had asked this question to my gynac, she replied to me that if a woman has to get orgasm to conceive, then the government need not spend crores on family planning.
After a child birth woman's responsibility increases. have you seen at what time she gets up, how much work she does till coming to bed? Will she have enough energy left in her to co-operate with her husband? she may have the fear that the child may wake up. she may have the fear of conceiving again. She may be worrying what breakfast to prepare next day morning and to wake up the child, prepare and send to the school. After a child birth, there are hormonal changes in her body.
2007-10-29 22:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of three, and I couldn't disagree with you more. I absolutely love sex. I love it more than I did when I was in my early twenties.
Maybe, you are more referring to the change in sexual desire? Let me break it down for you. Run about thirty miles in one day, every day, then you MIGHT be able to understand the stamina it takes to take care of one, two, three, or four children all day. It looks easy, but I must suggest that you give it a try. You'll see how much it takes out of you. When you're that exhausted, you don't really feel like having sex. You feel like sleeping. Not to mention, your self-esteem would be low due to trying to lose your pregnancy weight, trying to get your newly flabby tummy back to its taut shape, trying to find ways to get your new stretch marks to disappear, covering up the dark circles under your eyes from waking up 5 times a night by crying babies while your husband snoozes away, getting thrown up on all day, changing poopy diapers, and cleaning snotty noses. You don't really feel sexy after a day like that.
Not enjoying sex has nothing to do with it.
2007-10-29 23:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by lindsey d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense but your bf sounds like a bit of a jack***. In a relationship of course with should always be honest with each other but not in a way that is demeaning. Rather than put the onus on you perhaps he should be using a pump of some sort
2016-05-26 01:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a lot of women that have kids. They seem want sex all the same. They just keep getting interrupted.
I even dated one that shared a bedroom with her son. She would drug him, so she could have sex. I thought that was lame so I went home, and never dated her again.
2007-10-31 01:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Marvin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 children and enjoy sex more now than ever. My friend's are the same way.
2007-10-29 22:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Maybe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm not sure had no personal experience, BUT MAYBE DELIVERING A CHILD HURTS?
Ima guy but people always talk about hw it hurts lol
2007-10-29 21:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find the ones with children enjoy it more and are some what better in the sac
2007-10-29 21:44:58 · answer #11 · answered by Tim O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋