meet someone you think is special you fight against to keep from being hurt again??
2007-10-29 17:36:14 · 29 answers · asked by Ginny 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Lets see on this yes a few months ago I had went to dinner with a man that was interested in me for a few years and finally he wanted to go to dinner. At the time I loved this other guy who I only met once with friends for dinner and did not know my feelings or di not care to know my feelings I was hurt and am still not over it until now but slowly but surely getting over it some hehehe
I give the new man a chance and he is to assertive we just have dinner and he wants to see me again two days later well that scared me so I told him I will see him the following week in any case he played games not calling then calling me telling him off big time him asking me out again and me saying NO. Then I go to this event with my bestfriend some kind of Cultural event with art exhibits etc... and this Guy that lives on my block for yrs who is single tries to approach me I was so depressed over the last two guys I hated all men hehe which was wrong I was disgusted and felt so bad about me like whats wrong with me that if another GUY shows interest in I am going to chase him away!!! I feel bad the guy tried to approach me three times and now I see him in my neighborhood and he is so afraid to say anything and I will not say anything!! I was so mad that night that even I had words with my friend because she could not understand how really bad I felt about my entire life hehe when dating ....
Good questions thanks for asking it :))
2007-10-30 13:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure .. and you have to reason out very carefully before you let part of that guard down. Heck no one likes to get hurt 2 times in a row. Yes its a fight you have to live with till you fully get to know someone again. You cant live again till you get over the past. Hurting once has put up a barrier. Once you get past that Barrier you will learn to love again. Love over powers the hurt. Hurt , does hurt but love will make you forget the shame and hurt that you had.
2007-10-29 17:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so true! It took me a very long time to realize that's what I was doing. I now know I was closing all doors to ever having a chance of finding someone special by doing that.
EDIT : Damn Laid Back is right. It is being chicken. We do forget the good and remember only the bad. He didn't deserve thumbs down for saying how he saw it.
2007-10-29 18:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Alright 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been hurt until my heart bled,
one needs to brush it off.
If you have been hurt once, learn from this.
What comes of dwelling in this place, nothing, absolutely nothing, you bring others into your place of wetness.
Lift yourself up,
unfold your wings,
uncurl them from under your bruised self,
move them a little,
feel them drying in the warm sun.
Feel the energy come back into your body,
feel your wings of love ache to move,
allow this,
feel the unfurling of your being,
once again,
reaching out and being alive as part of all that is.
Know that what seems everything right now, will in a tilt of the hands of time, will be replaced with another moment.
Brave yourself, learn to live through this, know who you are,
and see the humour of understanding in this moment.
All will pass, and you will say, who was that.
in holding on the pain is more, in letting loose the hurt dissolves.
Free the being of being bound by this limitation.
2007-10-29 18:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Astro 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are being answered by the MASTER of hiding out so that I don't have to feel that pain ever again. HOWEVER, DEAR GINNY, I did meet someone special and I blocked him and blocked my email so he couldn't even do that. For three days... then , Ginny, I took a chance and I unblocked him and laid my heart right out there in plain site and he took it and put it in his pocket. Now, while we are apart.....he reaches in there and there's my heart. I'm taking another chance. A broken heart is not near as horrible to have as a terminal illness. Think about it....you may be losing out on the BEST that is ever happened to you. They are NOT all the same, honest! Trust me.
2007-10-29 18:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by missellie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
All The Time, I Prepare Myself For The Worst
2007-10-29 17:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by misslee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Used to be like that when I was younger...Then I got into an 18 year relationship and no love the last 7....I wasn't looking for love...It kinda crept up on me....And I ran with it....We've had problems as you know...But I love him so much and I'm determined to make this work....If you walk around scared to let anybody in....Then you will never know what could've been....
2007-10-30 01:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by karens lovinlife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No body likes to be hurt. I am sure every adult has been hurt, at least once in the past. If you are referring to a relationship, try not to pre-judge. If you have been hurt a lot..you should now see the "warning" signs. Use your past experiences to your advantage!
2007-10-29 17:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by muffin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it used to happen a lot when I was younger. As I got older it really takes a lot for me to fall in love, realizing this gives me a chance to relax and don't be afraid of getting hurt.
2007-10-29 17:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I want is a wonderful woman who is honest attractive, trustworthy and cares about me and my life's goal (to work for the poor Matthew 25:40)
It would be so wonderful to have a wonderful to share life with. I am trusting God to take me to higher plains.
2007-10-29 17:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by JOHN 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋