2007-10-29 17:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay not necessarily "love" at first sight but some sort of spark that made you go, "oooh...whos that girl?"
2007-10-29 17:23:51 · update #1
No. I noticed her lips and her long brunette hair, it was so shiny. It curled near the ends, the rest was straight. She has a light complexion, with some little freckles, and light brown eyes. Her nose is a perfect shape, not pointed or snubbed. I thought "What a beautiful girl." I wanted to get to know her. I was totally surprise. She was so honest. I would say would you like to do this and she would yes or no, just like that. There were no games, no ploys. It was like that in all things. I realized I wasn't dating a girl but a woman who knew what she wanted. She discussed marriage and let me know all of her past and asked me if I could accept her the way she was. If I couldn't their was nothing more to talk about. Just like that, really. I learned from her and did the same. We married.
2007-10-29 17:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you could call it 'love' or 'lust' - but I believe when two people meet and are meant for each other - there's a connection that sparks something and you just know it's meant to be.
My husband and I experienced that. I was sworn off marriage - was never interested as at that time I thought bad things of guys! haha However, when I met my (now) husband, it was really ... weird!! I just knew that was meant to happen. Truely strange and I can't even put it into words - I tried to fight it at the time... and there were so many times that I think back to where i'm surprised we got this far.... but... we got married 8 months later... and we've now been married 6 years. I would have to say I think that connection we had when we met was a spiritual one. There's no other way I can explain it.
2007-10-30 00:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Love at first sight is a crock invented for sappy movies, and Hallmark.
Love takes time. Love is taking someone for who they are both good and bad. You can't fall in love at first sight.
Lust at first sight yes, love no. I learned to love my wife.
2007-10-30 00:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by I try 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know of a guy who found his soul mate and she also found him and as per them, it was loved at first sight, it's a very wonderful story.
2007-10-30 00:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it was love at first sight. there was definitely an attraction. but we're not together anymore. go figure
2007-10-30 01:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by coldskorpiostar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex fiance said it was love at first sight. but me, being the selfish ***** that I am drove him away and we broke up tonight after 2 years
2007-10-30 00:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my x wife stalked me and called for days so I went out with her a 2nd time,never knowing she would have my daughters and divorce me 5 years later,later
2007-10-31 13:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by dpwag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still a mystery for myself too...why did my hubby picks me up between many gals and now i seem to see the results, coz I'm moron to let a jerk marry me and cheated on me...but I'm a christian and i believe married for once...is it work for me???
2007-10-30 01:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love no way it was sexual attraction.
2007-10-30 00:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my husband was
2007-10-30 00:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋