When will I start to fully show when I wont be able to hide it form my Mom any longer...she thinks Im just gaining weight in my belly area.... Im having constant gas and my nipples hurt alot. Im 2 months late for my period. I have fatigue and mood swings....sound like PMS??? Im neevr late....aahhhhhhh
This is what happens girls when you think your in "love" and trust a guy when your drunk and tell you he has a condom on and that even if you do get pragnant that hell stay. Dont believe them girls. Most guys this age have no respect for girls. So always if your going to be active use protection. I wish someone had told me that...
2007-10-29 16:24:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should tell your mom now. It will probably take some time for her to calm down after she finds out and you will want to give her plenty of notice and just be honest with her. Also, you need to start health care and she is most likely the one who can make appts. for you. Good Luck!
2007-10-29 16:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by adancechick4life 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can be anywhere from two months to four months. You will need to tell your mom, and I think you should do it before you start showing. Perhaps you can say you are worried because you are late, instead of saying "I know I'm pregnant, where do I go from here" If she feels like you need her from the very beginning, she will look more at helping her child rather than being angry. Not completely, but oh well.
And no, guys (ESPECIALLY THAT AGE) don't stick around. He doesn't want to be in trouble! And condoms are 97% effective, not 100%, so even if he had used one, there is a chance to get pregnant. I hope you learned not to drink, or at least not to drink and be intimate!
2007-10-29 23:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Zach 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What are u waiting for GO TELL YOUR MOTHER!!! She´ll find out anyways so just be a responsible person and take responsability for what u did instead of trying to make her think that u just gained a little weight in your belly. The more u wait, the more u hide it from her the angrier she´ll get when u actually tell her, she wont appreciate the fact that you´re hiding it from her. its not right. Why are u getting drunk and having sex at 15?! do u wanna keep the baby?..
Parents take care of your kids, of ur girls, so that they dont end up pregnant at 15...
2007-10-29 23:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you are learning some lessons from your mistake. You do really need to tell your mother ASAP so she can get you to the doctor for prenatal care. It is very important to see the doctor and take care of yourself and the baby.
You are SO young! Please, consider placing the baby for adoption with a loving family. So many couples want children but can't get pregnant. They would love to adopt your baby and give it a good life. If you can't even tell your mom that you're pregnant, how are you going to be responsible enough to raise a child? You can't even provide for yourself completely right now, let alone a child. Visit www.itsaboutlove.org for more info and an 800# you can call for free help!
2007-10-29 23:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your mum a.s.a.p you are going to need her help and support more than you have ever needed it. You are going to start showing within the next two months depending on what size you are. Have you been to the doctors yet so they can advise you on care while you are pregnant. There is alot of things regarding pregnancy that you will not know. Your mum has been there and will be able to advise you on things or be there when y ou are in labour or when baby arrives. YOu need her help please tell her now. Remember you are still 15 and would have no idea what to do. I also wish you would have used protection, never trust guys they will tell you anything to get some, i wish someone would have taught you that. i am not going to have a go at you or anything as it is to late for that. You can do this be brave mums are there for there kids she will be upset but will do anything for you.
2007-10-29 23:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by top_mumsy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom as soon as you can. She might have valuable information that can help you and your baby stay healthy during your pregnancy. You also need a prenatal appointment. Everybody's body is different, so you could start to show at 3 months, or you might not show until 5 or 6. But I wouldn't hide it from your mom.
You should start taking some prenatal vitamins. Your school counselors might be able to help you also. They could be there with you when you tell your mom.
Good luck, and I'm glad that you learned something from this experience.
2007-10-29 23:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you realize your mistakes and hopefully will learn a big lesson. A lot of people say they learn, but go back to their old ways with the next person. Never just assume he's wearing a condom. Trust me, you know the difference if you've experienced both.
Dear, you have to tell your mom. And say just what you did to us, that you've learned from this and want to do the right thing. Maybe adoption? Give both you and baby a fresh start. You'd be a hero.
Lots of love and good wishes to you
2007-10-29 23:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide it from your mum. Do the right thing and explain to her the situation and if she agrees and you feel its right, start looking a adoption agencies cos 15 is way too young.
Think long and hard whether you can look after this child for the rest of you life and what sort of burden it would have an your whole family. Discuss it openly with you mum, you might be suprised at her reaction
2007-10-29 23:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom needs to know. there are lots of things to keep track of and take care of during pregnancy. I don't know why you would want to be active like that at 15, but I guess you now live with the consequences of that. You won't regret telling your mom now. She will be upset naturally, however, the fact that you suck it up and tell her means you are taking responsibility for your actions and not lying to her, because when you do get to where you can't hide it, you can't just say, well i thought i was just gaining weight, or come up with any other lame excuse, cause she'll know better. Trust me, she needs to know.
2007-10-29 23:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by ledbytheholyspirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom honey she might be dissapointed and yell throw a fit whatever but nobody can help you the way she can i was 16 when i got pregnant with my son and nobody was more helpful and understanding than she. Also if you plan on keeping the baby you need prenatal care it sounds like you havent been receiving any. just keep in mind you do have options as bad as it may be for some of us to admit but ultimately it is your choice good luck
2007-10-29 23:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by cynthia g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋