i tried to reconcile with my son. god knows how i tried. he's the world to me along with my grown daughter who i see every now & then & she never shuts me out of her life. i send him cards call him email him &ask about my granddaughter.. he hangs up the phone & i just want to cry. i have a pet & i don't want him to see me cry.. my pet deserves to be happy. i'm the only one he can depend on. i just love my dog. i want to live but at times i feel so suicidal.. i miss my son so much. i was so abused by my ex husband & left him. my children were also abused while they were growing up..can't my son see this & how it has affected me. i finally met a nice man who treats me good... thank god. i love children & i have a 2yr old granddaughter who i haven't seen since she was 6 months. he only lets my daughter & ex husband see the child. ........my son must think i'm crazy if i''ll ever take his abusive dad back. i was living in hell.. history won't repeat it self in my book
2007-10-29 14:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get professional help. Please got to one of these websites and get help immediately. You will never be able to reconcile things if you are not there.
http://www.befrienders.org/
http://www.hopeline.com/
http://psychcentral.com/helpme.htm
2007-10-29 14:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, PLEASE find a menal health professional trained to help people who have been abused. (Ask your primary care doctor for a referral or your local mental health center.) There is more going on here than just your son not wanting to have contact with you. At the very least, you need some anti-depressants until you can get a hold on your emotions. Suicide in never a good option. It hurts everyone you love who is left behind.
You say your kids were also abused by your ex-husband. Your son may blame you for staying with the man instead of having the strenght to leave thus saving him from getting emotional scarred by the experience. Whatever his reasons for not wanting to see him, you need to learn to respect that this is his way of protecting his emotions. You also need to work on accepting all the things you cannot change and changing the things that are within your power to change. Therapy can really help. Please find a professional to talk this all out with.
2007-10-29 15:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound disrespectful at all. But, do you think it could be depression. I'm just saying this because I have relatives who've sufferred from the same thing. The best thing I can suggest is a visit to a pshychiatrist or a doctor. Wish you all the luck! Bye
2007-10-29 14:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, I don't know what your pet has to do with anything. But, your son is probably pretty peeved that he grew up watching you get beat and you never doing anything about it. You need therapy and hopefully, he'll come around. Remember, generally speaking, girls and women are more empathetic to these things.
2007-10-29 14:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all go and see your doctor you sound like you are suffering from depression. If you get yourself in a better state of mind maybe your son will see this and things will change. You need to concentrate on your new husband and be fare to him, what would it do to him if you packed it in. PLEASE see your doctor.
2007-10-29 14:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Timbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://suicidehotlines.com/
JUST GO HERE..AND CALL THIS NUMBER..RIGHT NOW...DO NOT WAIT!!!!
THIS IS PROFESSIONAL HELP THAT WE CANNOT GIVE YOU!
1-800-SUICIDE 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-8255
2007-10-29 15:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and?
What have you decided?
2007-10-29 14:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071029185155AAc3PMi&r=w
Please answer - thanks
2007-10-29 14:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋