is he a player?

Question

i have feelings for this guy but he has a gf, he rubbed my hand and gets close to me and smile at me for no reason...didn't go to days at school and got mad at me for some reason..then he's like sitting next to me, acting weird and nervous..and when i ask him something he seem happy .im not going to be the third wheel..but if does leave his girlfriend, wouldn't he leave me for someone else..i have this bad vibe about him though

sry i know this doesn't belong here but i need advice from people with experience..so thats why i put it in marriage and divorce

actually im 20 but i have problems with English lol

Answer 1

bad vibe..... follow your instinct, its always right

Answer 2

Never ignore the bad vibe thing. He is definitely a player. He keeps flirting in hopes that you'll say something to give him a "reason" to start messing with you while he's in a relationship. If he was a real man, he would not date someone else while he has a girlfriend, or even break up with her to be with you. He would rather end the relationship for a real reason, take some time to think about his mistakes, and then pursue another relationship. Stay clear of this dude. He is an opportunist.

Answer 3

So what if he has a girlfriend. Unless he's in a serious long term relationship with this girlfriend, she's a none issue as long as he stops seeing her. He may leave you for another girlfriend, but he may not. It really depends on how much he cares for this girl, as opposed to the convenience of having a girlfriend and how much he cares for you. Just because he treats one girlfriend, that he may not even like much, poorly, doesn't mean he'll treat you poorly. You're a different person creating a different situation.

Of course, you sound like a teenager, so chances are it's about having a girlfriend, any girlfriend for him, but he could be looking for something serious and then the girlfriend is again, a none issue.

Answer 4

If he has a gf & he's acting this way with you

then he might do the same to you date him if

you want but only knowing what you are

getting yourself into. I suggest you don't do it

but if it makes YOU happy it can't be that bad.

But you seem to know the right thing to do;

And remember you might think he's really hot

but he is Not the only cute guy out there I'm

sure.

Answer 5

You say this guy has a girlfriend. What if he likes you, and leaves her? Then you would be the girlfriend. Cheaters Cheat. That is what he is. That is what he does. You don't have to divorce a girlfriend. All you have to do is say " I have met someone I am attracted to. " He could say "I want to break up," or "I don't want to continue an exclusive relationship at this time." That is honest. Do you want a dishonest cheat? Tell him to keep his distance, and enforce it if need be.

Answer 6

Any bad vibe for whatever reason sounds like trouble to me.
Trust your feelings they are there for a reason.

Answer 7

Why do you even ask this? Shouldn't you already know he's trouble? You get a "bad vibe?" Then listen to it.

Answer 8

I would not date him if he leaves her. You have a weird vibe? Always trust your gut. It is usually right.

Answer 9

Want the truth? You're a foreigner so I'll help you out. He wants to get into your underwear. Pure and simple. All men are nothing but filthy, dirty, oversexed pigs.

I know...I was one before I got married.

Lesson #1 learned.

Answer 10

He sounds like a creep.

Why do you like him if you KNOW he treats his gf this way? What would you do if you were his gf and he treated you this way? When in doubt, follow your gut.

Answer 11

If he can get itchy feet on his current girl, don't ever think you will be the one to change him. Go far away from him.