Its so not fair.
2007-10-29 11:50:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Honey, our popularity doesn't follow us in the "real world" only our character does.
Take the time to build your character and self esteem. You'll be much happier, and true to yourself.
The "popular" girls usually compromise something to get that "title".
This is only the beginning of the game. Don't get hung up on the details of popularity. It's better to have a core group of "real" friends than those who compromise.
2007-10-29 11:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda F 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why is being "the most popular girl in school" so important to you? Who cares if you aren't the most popular girl in school and would you really want to have to deal with the pressure, the in-fighting, the backstabbing, the not talking to people because they just aren't good enough for your popular group? What happens when the rest of the cool kids decide that you are no longer good enough and then start rumors in order to bring you down? Do what you want but know that you have been warned. Oh and once the popular kids leave their haven, they often don't know what to do with themselves and end up getting lost. Like one of the popular girls from my middle school ended up in three different high schools before she finally managed to graduate her senior year.
2007-10-29 12:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but the most popular girl is probably not worrying about how popular she is. She is either very friendly and gives herself completely to others, or a trendsetter (not everybody can do this). She is probably out right now with real people building her popularity, while you are on the computer.
If you want to be popular, you need to get out and be with people. After all POPULAR means "of the people," not "of the computer."
2007-10-29 12:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sadly in this day and age the "coolest" and most popular people in high school are attention seekers that will do anything their friends say is cool with no regards for themselves. As long as you are yourself and you like yourself you are the coolest person and nobody can say no to that because only you know you.
2007-10-29 12:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mtheoryguy 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a title.
No one in their right mind wants to be the most popular girl in school.
Only 1 can be, most can't.
Why don't you want to be a decent human being? Isn't that a better thing to aspire to?
High school will end. You'll have a whole life to live. You can spend it wishing for really stupid and sick things, or you can learn to live it well.
2007-10-29 13:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the popular people and do what you love too do also say hi too everyone and be nice, go tryout for your favorite sport and go to the play or something you'll make tons of new friends, and being popular won't matter to you.
2007-10-29 13:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by ☺♥ Turkish Delight ♥☺ 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
because the poular girl is usually a slut and is with every guy. I dont think you want that title. Instead of being"the popular girl" be the well known girl who evrybody is friends with and is not the lsutty popular.
good luck!
2007-10-29 11:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by rawr rawr rawrr 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I gues if everyone was equally special, then nobody would be special.
The popular girl usually grows up to be the spoiled, immature, snobby jerk that no one likes. Don't be her.
2007-10-29 11:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why is this important to you? It is really a shallow thing. Why don't you be concerned with making friends and making good grades. That is more important.
2007-10-29 11:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Around were i live,people who have families here,and know them.They become pop.!
2007-10-31 10:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋