OK,, as of right now 1715 im am cooking, my fiance came, home, from working ummm4 hours.... (military) i work graves at a psych ward plus overtime......Im sick, cause Ive stretched myself thin this week, and Im cooking, cleaning....at the same time, ......and him? On the couch sleeping...........
2007-10-29 11:16:45 · 7 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ok heres the deal. Some guys dont respond well to talking. U can tell him how u r feeling and he will be all sensitive and promise he will start to help u. But generally bad habits r hard to break and by tomorrow he will have forgotten all about it.lol.
They do respond well with visuals. So! my advice is this....cook only for yourself, wash only your clothes, clean up after yourself. Once he sees that u r a little ticked off with him and he realises he has an empty tummy and no clean sox and jocks he will get the picture. lol.
2007-10-29 11:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a couple, 3 kids who got a divorce. The wife complained she did all the housework and he never helped. She would vac around him while he sat on the floor and watched TV.
But ... she never asked him to help. All those years together and she could not simply talk to him.
If you are over-worked, stop. You dont have to be Martha Stewart. Make quick meals, soup and sandwitches. Dirty dishes, dirty house - who cares? If you are 'stretched thin' - tell him and let things go for a few days. Ask him to help, but dont worry if he does not.
2007-10-29 17:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how it is supposed to work. His dinner should be on the table hot when he walks in. Then you should make sure the house is picked up and the lawn is done. Perhaps you should cook him a nice meal and offer the oral sex.
2007-10-30 00:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know. He does not know. I dont think he is doing it intentionally. Maybe he was raised with him mom cooking and cleaning and he or his dad slept.
2007-10-29 11:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more respect for yourself and find a REAL man.
2007-10-29 12:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont kill him, or harm him in anyway, matter of fact forget about this whole question.....
2007-10-29 15:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by galactimus138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with it girl...
build a bridge and get over it..
2007-10-29 11:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by A O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋