For the past year I have been getting turned on by girls more than anything. I've dated a couple of guys in the last year but I would much rather be touching a girl than a guy. I also have a major crush on this woman at my tanning salon. Yet there are two guys I am torn between at the moment. Which makes me really confused. I don't think I am Bi because I don't want a threesome.
I don't fit the 'lesbian stereotype'. Although I do like some guy things like car racing, rally, I am obsessed with fashion but it's all streetwear. I never wear skirts.
In short I want to be with another girl 80% and a guy about 30%. I don't care if I'm with a guy again though... Do lesbians 100% want girls or am i Bi?
2007-10-29 10:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
uhh i meant 20 percent with guys lol i wrote that kind of fast in a mood.. *blush*.
2007-10-29 13:51:41 · update #1
Well you could be bi...or maybe your a lesbian and just haven't fully figured it out yet. When I first started to realize that I may be a lesbian, at first I still liked guys, but my attraction to guys went away after a while. If after a long time you still find yourself attracted to guys, then your bi, if not then your lesbian.
2007-10-29 10:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, not all bis are into 3-somes--that's a stupid stereotype.
Secondly, don't try to fit a stereotype, 'cause most stereotypes are wrong. I like some guy things and some girl things. I'm not butch, nor am I femme, I'm me. I'm in between the two.
I never wear skirts, and rarely wear dresses (only if I have to).
My hair is just past my shoulders and layered.
Everyone and their brother thinks I'm straight as an arrow.
I'm 17 and a lesbian. With a scooter--black and blue. And a white open-face helmet. And glasses, which I love to death.
Now, do you see any stereotypes that I fit? If so, PLEASE, for the love of god tell me!!!
2007-10-29 10:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
wooow i didnt even think of lesbians as tomboyish , honestly stereotypes are fake , and the thing about a threesome or any other sexual activity doesnt make u anything , (bi or les or straight) but i understand what u mean about being confused , but u dont act a certain way to be a lesbian , it depends on how u feel .
2007-10-29 12:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. Straight girls sometimes have crushes on girls. Therefore, couldn't gay girls have small crushes on guys? I feel the same way as you do.
And umm, 80%+30%=more than 100%....Not trying to be smug or anything...
2007-10-29 12:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight, but I have a couple of homosexual friends. Um...the way I see it, if you're bi, then you like both, no matter what the percentage. However if you're a lesbian or gay, you like that sex, 100% Hope that helps.
2007-10-29 10:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Maii 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think i ts up to you sometimes its just a phase that people go through well iam straight personally but if ehatever you feel in your heart you should do well chances are your by but it dosent mean that you eil have threesomes just go with your heart sometimes you may be in the need for dick and then sometimes pussy you get the best of both worlds
2007-10-29 11:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi people dont necessarily want both genders at once in a big sandwich . you sound like you might be bi , or even prefer women .
2007-10-29 12:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stereotypes are stupid. Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you like threesomes. o_o And lesbians don't have to have short hair, ride motorcycles, not wear dresses, etc.
2007-10-29 10:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're torn between guys still, you're not a lesbian...You're bi...
2007-10-29 10:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an open mind. You're young! I've done my share of "experimenting" so stay heteroflexible.
2007-10-29 10:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by carolynmphs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋