2007-10-29 09:21:51 · 50 answers · asked by Mic 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That depends--I would not change who I am but I would compromise things in a relationship.
2007-10-29 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in the long run we should all be who we really are. If you try to pretend you are someone else, it doesn't usually last because it's not real, it's only on the outside. If you have some problems that are hurting your life, or someone else's and you can do something to improve that, well that's a different story. Improvements and positive changes can be good in all of our lives. But too many people, especially in youth, try to be something they are not, to outwardly impress another. That's a tough road to walk every day trying to be someone you are not!Too many divorces and broken relationships are filled with people, angry, because they can not change their partner to be what they want. Be the best of who "you" are and realize that you have some great qualities that someone will appreciate if/when the time and person is right. I remember something someone told me years ago. Better to be alone right now, than to "wish" you were alone.
2007-10-29 09:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Country Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally, I am kind of broken that way...separate realities if needed...I fracture some of my associations in order to have a full spectrum of life, if I am at a different place I might not even recognize a friend...gotta kind of find where your connected to in my mind...if you wave I will look for the category but I do not search a crowd for a familiar face, I would go crazy... I cannot always combine my multiple intrests but maybe one day I will find someone who can twist and turn with me :)
2007-10-29 11:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you can only change for yourself. Because you want to change. If you need to change to please someone else then that is not the right person for you!
2007-10-30 10:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by flyersgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only change yourself for you. However, if you are doing something that hurts someone you love, then you need to re-evaluate yourself.
Smile!!!
2007-10-29 09:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Penny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in small ways only. I dropped a couple of little habits that annoyed my hubby, but I've not changed anything about my personality or my appearance. Please note: He changed several habits that annoyed me, too! It's a mutual thing we do out of respect for the other. I wouldn't dream of asking him to change anything that is really a part of who he is, and he wouldn't do that to me, either.
2007-10-29 09:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by baeb47 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I believe you can only change for yourself.
2007-10-29 09:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by nikinova1488 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes if there's enough love in your heart you want to change for the better for yourself and for someone you care because you care.
2007-10-29 12:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if I wanted to. I am a good actress... I could change myself to be whatever I want to. But in general I am just myself all the time :)
2007-10-29 09:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by The Woman With You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha yeah right. The only person I change for is myself.
2007-10-29 09:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋