2007-10-29 08:14:55 · 85 answers · asked by enki 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
No. We all might have experienced falling for the wrong person. At times we just thought to believe it was love we felt,..when only, it was some complex attraction,..in a moment of madness.
No, it's never a sin to LOVE a 'wrong person'. If loving means caring for the person in a pure way despite his being 'not the right' one,..then it's not a sin at all.
Come to think of it; We maybe are all 'wrong persons',..but the One Above still insists on loving us...And HE doesn't brand it a sin, but rather, a perfect act called LOVE.
2007-10-29 13:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm trying to create an image in my mind -- what does this "wrong person" exude? what do I feel when I am in this "wrong person's" presence? And why is this person labeled "wrong"?
Driving the WRONG way can damage vehicles and bodies.
Taking the WRONG prescription won't bring about the healing I'd hoped for.
Using the WRONG fork will raise eyebrows.
Dialing the WRONG number can result in surprises.
"WRONG" can be so many different things depending upon the context.
LOVING and WRONG don't sit well together. Though Rod Stewart wove them together into lyrics.
SIN, that which separates us from the holy. Sin is sin and scripture gives us plenty to take in in order to determine when we have sinned.
LOVE in our hearts can take a long time to catch up with reasons in our minds. Know that love can even let go...and often must.
2007-10-30 11:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by CHos3n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because love is something that no one can stop you from.
if you think that loving the wrong person is a sin then believe what you want to. But if you decde that loving that one person is a sin and it's the wrong person. it might end up that, that couldve been the right person for you, but all you had to do was work at it.
maybe loving the wrong person is a sin, but it doesnt matter, some people do things worse than loving the wrong person.
people cant tell you what/who you should love and shouldnt.
nothings wrong until proven.
:)
2007-10-30 08:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Loving is not a sin. If it were, the word would be an awful place.
Loving the wrong person may give you plenty of heartache though. If whatever reason, this is really the "wrong person" then do your very best to avoid the relationship altogether and get on with your life.
Staying in a bad relationship, or dwelling on the "wrong person" will just make you utterly miserable.
2007-10-29 08:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pat K 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is the only good thing in Life, Love? I speculate that the absense of Love is what cyclones the movements of Sin and Thrusts us through with the pain of choosing and Loving the wrong illusion. What do all Happy People have in Common? Have they all Loved the Right Illusion or chose to be happy regardless? Happiness is an inner state that relies on obtaining your goals, whatever they are.
Can Humanity dwell on Earth without Pain? Has Sin caused us to be Blinded in Choosing the wrong Illusion? When we Love the wrong Person does Godhold us Responsible? Are we NEVER responsible for what we do? (Excuser)
Has the Person you Loved Wrongly held Implications of Morals and Standards Deemed Wrong? Both at the Judiciary and Biblical Sense? Is he/she Married, Same Sex, Harlot, a Menace to Society, etc. If you Have Answered Yes to Any of the Following, I would say Yes, Sin is Manifesting itself in a Cesspool of Disaster.
The Psychological Altruist Regards Love & Infactuation to be Categorized Separately because Sometimes the Love you Feel for the Illusion is not Selfish. Is it Selfish to Love What is Wrong for Us, or Just the Opposite?
Why must we Suffer when the Suffering isn't Product of Sin?
According to the Reconciler:
-Suffering produces an Opportunity to Build Character, Choose to Learn in the Process of Suffering. To live in a World Void of Suffering would be to Live in a World without Character. Where does Character Originate From?
-Genetics
-Society
-Culture
-Family
-Religion
-Education
Through the Suffering of Loving the Wrong Illusion, You will develop Character to Make Better Choices down the Road.
Philosophically Speaking, Loving the Wrong Person Can Either be a Sin if you Interprate the Love to Be Flawed or it Can be a Good Thing if You Make the Love to Be the Highest Utopia Love and the Factors mentioned above do not apply. Love Can Not be Bound, But it Can Be Set Free to Return to Bondage.
2007-10-29 14:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If your foundation basis is that you love yourself then you likely cant go wrong in who you chose to share yourself with as love
if you dont love yourself then you are more apt to be in need and are not loving the person but using them as a means to become that which you are not thus they too are being cheated
unfortunately need and particularly those of lust are more the norm in choosing what one desires to call love
it all comes down to definitions
if the other person is 'supposed' to do whatever 'because' you love them it is far different than you doing things for the other person because you love them
if the relationship allows both to grow and change and evolve through the interactions with each other then even if it doesnt start with proper love, it very well may end up there
of course I am replying from my own opinion that the only 'bad' sin is the one we dont learn something from
2007-10-29 09:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by genntri 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your question is kind of vague, my friend. If you could create a more accurate picture, placing those involved in better context, perhaps I can better offer some assistance. Possibly.
No, it's not necessarily a sin, provided that...
In my opinion, I find, if I check my motives, and answer my pursuits honestly, the answer will come. Especially, if I am searching for the right thing to do, afterall, I have a conscience and life is great when it as clear, don'cha know !!!
Take care, follow your conscience, use the "right-head". Be well, peace on you !
2007-10-31 07:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Hemispheres 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not a sin. it is natural human law that we go through a few bad ones before we know that we have found the right one. After all how will U know what a good one is if U didn't have the bad ones to lead U in the right direction
2007-10-29 16:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i love,i don't really care if it's the right or wrong person and i never thought it's a sin to love one.
2007-10-29 13:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by brainwhacker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loving a married person is a sin.
2016-04-11 01:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋